My ex & i went out the other day to catch up because we haven't seen each other in roughly 2 months. we broke up around 4 months ago because she started suffering from depression which caused her to quesiton whether or not she wanted to be with me. she decided to end it because she cudn't handle a relationship atm. wen i spoke to her last on the fone she said that she liked someone and that she was over me. I was heartbroken coz i am not over it yet. I told her i am kind of seeing someone atm and her attitude totally changed, she became really weird. wen we went out i saw she was slightly angry at me. wihch showed she wasnt over it.afta d movie we saw she hugged me a few times and i cud see in her eyes she was remembering things about us. & den she began to talk about how wen u see someone it brings up all these memories again. i really do want her back and im jus scared that if i continue this itll push her to move on and i might loose my chance to get her back. please help!!! thanks
2007-02-10 20:33:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she still likes you and wants to be with you. I think she was just trying to make you jealous when she said she liked someone else and was over you! I think she was jealous when you told her you was seeing someone else, the way she acted. So I really do think you have a good chance of getting her back, she still loves you!! Just show her you are interested in getting back together with her and see what she says.. Good Luck!!!!
2007-02-10 20:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though she seemed like she was upset that you had moved on, this doesn't mean she wants you back. It is very common for us women to get upset with such things. We don't like the idea that you've gotten over us - that someone else is now receiving your effections. But if you ask us to get back together, the answer is still "no".
I know, I know, it's sick isn't it? But it is true.
It's also natural to miss something that was once good.
You'll save yourself a lot of grief by just letting this go. Don't try to be friends - it doesn't really work out and will only prolong your confusion.
Sorry you're going through this.
2007-02-11 04:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't push it. Play along. Talk to her when she calls, be the sweet guy you are!
Women's instincts make them turn and run when they see someone pushing it. Trust me on this one. I'm just like her...
Good luck and God Bless. I hope everythng works out for you, honestly. I've been there, and been broken. I live with this guilt everyday and I wish I could stop loving him, but I can't... It's really painful.
2007-02-11 04:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Yvonne Mystic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to speak up now and know how she feels than to play a game hoping, this way you two can either get back together and get on with things, or you can separate and move on. But it is better to know than to wonder. Good Luck.......
2007-02-11 04:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have one little piece of advice for you. DON'T LOSE HOPE! girls tend to act kinda weird...i know i have, cuz this guy was acting like a stalker, but it's okay in that case, huh? well, just be friendly with her and be there when she needs someone. get to know a lot more people so wouldn't have to focus on her. good luck! I'll be praying for you, yahaha.
2007-02-11 04:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by shuriKen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honeslty man, put all this emotional stuff aside and jus **** IT.
why boldy chase when it seems like you've been coldly replaced??
2007-02-11 05:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jonathan L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love hurts when you give upon sumone
its hurts more when someone gives upon you
but love hurts most when the 2 of you keep holding on
then destiny suddenly gives up.......
before it happens to you do something
2007-02-11 04:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by celestial_guy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shOw hEr thAt yOu lovE hEr!!
untiL nOW!
cOmmOn! yOu cAn dO it!!
beLieve in yOurself..
yOu knOw whAt to dO!!
2007-02-11 04:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by 3988 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋