Ok, just a couple nights ago me and a friend met these two chicks online. We both showed eachother our webcams. Anyways, I guess they thought I was good looking ((Friend was on the couch watching TV so they didn't see him)) because they were flirting over cam a lot, so I asked these two girls if they wanted to hang out and they said yeah. So me and my friend headed out to their house. At first I was talking to the two girls no problem, but once we got inside their house into their room the conversation went dead. One started talking over the phone to another guy and the other was just quiet... and I ran out of things to say so thats when I start to get nervous. After the one girl got off the phone everyone ((me, my friend, and the two girls)) just got silent for about a minute... then out of no where she says it's time for you two to leave. What the hell do I say to make a girl attracted to me!? HELP!!! ITS DRIVING ME INSANE!!!!
2007-02-10 20:01:17 · 17 answers · asked by RJ L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm yeah... thats the POINT, I was asking questions until I RAN OUT OF THEM, can anyone give me any info on like what to say? Someone show me some examples.
2007-02-10 20:11:03 · update #1
So is that it? Just act interested in what they are saying to me? When should I say they are sexy and what not... you know, the other words girls like to hear.
2007-02-10 20:13:52 · update #2
Oh yeah... by the way, these weren't webcam girls, they were just some chicks on my buddy's msn list : /
2007-02-10 20:16:33 · update #3
Hmm, I can't choose a best answer... a lot of you guys n gals have a lot of good ones :) Thanks to you all and I appreciate the advice!
2007-02-10 21:38:08 · update #4
rj, there is nothing you can SAY to make a girl attracted to you. Believe it or not (one day, you will believe it!) but LISTENING is the way to get a girl attracted to you. Every time you open your mouth, gives them a chance to critique you. But if your INTERESTED in them, it makes THEM the center of attention,and girls LOVE that. They also love the "strong quiet" type. Don't be silent. Look, and wait for an opportunity to agree with them. "I like that group too!, what's your favorite song?" like that. Don't go on and on trying to show off (they can see right through that, and it takes the attention off them, and onto you...a big turnoff). "Cool cell phone! what are some of the features YOU like?", then LISTEN.
2007-02-10 20:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by adannelly2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, they have to get with the jerks because everyone else is too shy or other wise doesn't know how to show any interest in them at all. All the girls are ready before any of the boys, so the first one to learn to do each thing with them can have his pick of most of them. Your friend doesn't know what to do either. What he is doing is typical at that age. At least he's trying something. But, they would rather have some one be nice to them and talk normal to them. The first one to learn to do that will really be in luck. There aren't many girls you can talk into sex without any relationship at any age. Some adult relationships are just for having a good time and being friends while you are together, but that is some kind of relationship.
2016-05-25 09:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes its good to use reverse psychology (it doesnt really apply in this situation, though) if some chick seems to be interested in you. Try to refuse her at the beginning, very elegant, so she thinks that you are too "cool" for her.
Being refused by a girl at a club is quite embarassing for a guy, but a girl being refused by a guy in front of her friends is way worse, so she is willing to do anything to get you.
Sometimes, though, this doesnt work, and besides, maybe there are no girls hitting on you which makes it impossible.
While talking to a girl, try to be natural, MODEST, try to keep your "aces from the sleeve" for later. For example, if you have a really nice car, or some special skill or something extraodinary, let her find out, dont tell her. She will be both impressed by your modesty, not to say anything and by the thing itself.
Never seem desperate, that ruins everything and turns her off.
Try to make her laugh and self-criticism is always welcome. This makes u look like a nice, natural guy.
Hope it helps!
2007-02-10 20:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen
first of all why did u try to talk to webcam girls
theyre usually nothing but sluts to want u over that fast
rather than having something to say
just ask questions and when they ask a question
that means they are starting to get interested in u
just answer the questions
ask a few more
if u like this girl
then ask her out when u think that she would also feel comfortable being on a date with u
and dont forget
the question gig ok?
2007-02-10 20:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. Be cool...be confident. Situations with the opposite sex are the one time where you DON'T want to "keep your eye on the prize." Don't focus on the endgame or the outcome you are looking for. Focus on the here and now. Focus on just having fun and being yourself. As far as conversations...talking about celebs, weird random crazy stuff you heard on the news, or weird crap like that seems to work wonders as far as ice breakers go. Most girls I know like to gossip about people because talking about people reveals a lot about how you view human beings, situations, etc.
2007-02-10 20:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In three words, "keep it real."
Talk about important stuff. Nothing is more tedious than small talk. By important stuff, I don't mean like politics and stuff...unless that is what she is into. I mean talk about her. Talk about what is going on with her life. Talk about what she really loves or what she really hates,
Mostly, get her to talk about herself. If she doesn't want to talk, then don't get uptight. She's probably a little shy or she thinks you're a toad and cannot wait until you leave.
Also, know when you've worn out your welcome. Give her a break. Say, "hey, I'm gonna go outside for a while...maybe we can talk again later"...or something like that.
Good luck.
2007-02-10 20:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Well, it is the aspect of being semi-alone with two gorgy-porgy chicks. Or you could be gay slightly. J/K!!! Anyway......talk to a girl with a little more confidence. Start out talking to them in large groups of people. Gradually, start talking in smaller groups. You will be a Casanova with a chick in no time. Or gay in no time. HA HA!!! I crack myself up.
2007-02-10 20:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Everett M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying. The worst thing you can do is force the issue. Just be yourself, relax and do your own thing as you normally would. If someone is attracted to you, they'll let you know; if they aren't, you can try until the cows come home, it's not going to do any good. That's where masturbation came from...lol
2007-02-10 20:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u must realize tht the girls r probably more nervous than u are.... so do relax.. it will help them to relax also... just talk confidently about normal every stuff for a bit... dont try to hurry things up... be genuine... dont try to be someone who u r not... be confident about ur self...ultimately u want a girl to like u for who u r
2007-02-10 20:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by vivekachary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its better to listen than to talk girls like good dont talk to much just carry on were you left off in the chat room
2007-02-10 20:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by Janice M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋