Me and My bofriend broke up like 3 days ago after a 5 month relationship. We were such a great couple and we loved each other to bits. But at the last week he like my best friend and told her so.. Rhey didin't get together or stuff he just told her that. My friend didn't tell me this, only later on which i had to suck it out of her. This was like 3 days later. So she knew about this for a while and didn't tell me anythin about this. I was so cross with her. She even said to him that you should break up with her if you feel this way!!! I really like him and we had a close relationship. My point is that do you think i should give him a 2nd chance or just leave it. Please Help
2007-02-10 19:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend cheated on you. Worse yet, he cheated on you with your best friend. This is a meltdown-threatening situation for you. You may feel like maybe if you don't have to break-up with your boyfriend then maybe you can salvage both the relationship and the friendship and the whole network will hold together. But my dear, then you'd have to sacrifice your integrity and, if you hold yourself is any esteem, that is NOT an option. Drop the social life a-bomb and keep it real.
Boyfriends who cheat on you and best 'friends' who betray your friendships don't have a place in your life. Knock these people out of your life, take some time off to reassess your situation & get your own act back together and then get back out their on the dating scene in a month or two.
2007-02-10 20:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by lucky guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even give this guy, the time of day, and I would try and find a new best friend too that's just not cool at all.
2007-02-10 20:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Megz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I would leave it alone but if you really really like him alot then you'll give him a chance but try to be careful friends are not who they appear to be
2007-02-10 19:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think it as if it happens to you, put your boyfriend's shoes on and then think deeply and see if you should or not give him a 2nd chance try to think of what could had passed trough your boyfriend's head when he did that! be honest with yourself and then talk to him
2007-02-10 20:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by DioGo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are about 15. i wouldnt even worry, you dont know what youve got comin to ya in your adult life with relationships. they suck
2007-02-10 21:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jordy[♥] 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave it, realistically its obvioius he got bored with you or you didnt put out soon enough for him. hell probably break up with ur friend too if they get together.
2007-02-10 20:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by ¥¥Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just going to cheat on you. Don't even bother.
2007-02-10 19:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let your heart guide you, if he wants to "like" other people let him. relationships come and go. its more important to be happy.
2007-02-10 19:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by 40 oz to freedom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it dude, he's trouble.
2007-02-10 20:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋