they give me lots of chores like to keep my tiffin box in the sink after school my friends parents dont scream at them at all!!!
2007-02-10 19:54:00 · 9 answers · asked by anajnas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell them how you feel. This is the ONLY way people will EVER change their behavior toward you...for the rest of your life. Decide which one your closest to, and some day when you're alone with them, say something like "mom, is everything ok, i mean, with you and dad, work, or bills?" very adult like, and serious. When they ask why you would as such a question (and they will!) tell them! "I feel like you yell at me alot, for unnecesary things. It just seems like, I can't do anything right to please you. I just don't feel like i'm doing anything wrong, so, I figured something else was going on." You will be very surprised how that parent treats you from then on. The will know, you're growing up and becoming a mature, thoughtful person. You need to let them know, that you can and will talk to them, and that they can talk to you in a mature adult manner. You will all be happier.
2007-02-10 20:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by adannelly2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents want you to be a perfect daughter in all respects and they are training you for this. Unless someone tells some may not do regular things. So you should do and show what you are capable of yourself without their reminding you. Then slowly they will realise you are serious and will stop reminding or telling you. Parents will tell only good things to their children and you should not take it otherwise. After proving yourself after some time you can tell them not to scream at you as you are doing it yourself. It may be the nature of the persons also to go on tell but you have to take it easily. -
2007-02-12 23:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DISCUSS IT WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND MAYBE THEIR PARENTS CAN HELP YOUR PARENTS HANDLE THINGS WITHOUT ALL THE YELLING AND SCREAMING. OR MAYBE DO SOMETHING THAT YOUR PARENTS LEST EXPECT YOU TO DO NOW AND THEN AND MAYBE THIS WILL OFFSET THEIR YELLING ABOUT SMALL PETTY THINGS. MAYBE THEY WANT YOU TO CLEAN THE TIFFIN BOX QUICKLY RIGHT AFTER ARRIVING FROM THE BOARDING SCHOOL YOULL SURVIVE , BE SMART AND ENJOY SCHOOL. TOO..SOMEDAY ITLL BE BEHIND YOU
2007-02-11 04:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by woolly worm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be silent and hide while they are screaming. Then do them some favor. When they will say "Thanks" you tell them that everything you want is that they don't yell at you. If they take your favor for granted, then show your dissatisfaction with their behavior by ignoring them even when they yell. It's very effective I've tried it.
2007-02-11 05:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Wintermute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should sit down and have a talk with your parents and explain how you feel maybe you can sort it out
2007-02-11 04:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Janice M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their parents its their job, just do the work and don't complain in some more years you'll be in college free!
2007-02-11 03:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably have a lot of stress going on in their lives
2007-02-11 03:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by briank1458 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents could be stressed and taking it out on you, ive had to deal with that **** for years, it will get better.
2007-02-11 03:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by 40 oz to freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? i suppose you are a teenager; you should make a truce with them; ask what you should do to please them and if they ask too much talk with a councilor from your school, for example
2007-02-11 04:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by lock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋