How do I make this girl fall for me?

Question

I have liked this girl for 3 years. I know thats a long time but you dont know her, she is the most amazing person I have ever met and I have never cared about someone as deeply as I care about her. I screwed up in the begginning and now the closest I can ever get to her is her friend. It dosnt help that she knows that I like her. I really cant stand not being with her and it is driving me crazy. Prom is coming up soon and any positive info would be greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

Roofies, dog...Roofies. Works every time!

Answer 2

You have what I like to call ONE-ITIS. The uncontrollable obsession with a single girl that leads to ur ultimate demise. And it doesnt help that you're needy either and she can sense it.

This is going to be a hard fact to accept. You are stuck in what I call the dreaded "Friend" zone. There is really only one solution. You must follow the instrucitons EXACTLY. You have to separate yourself from her for approx 3 months. Proceed to re-build yourself and create a NEW image for yourself in her eyes. Remember, when you see her in 3 months, she needs to see a WHOLE NEW YOU. Not the OLD YOU. Go work out (if your not in shape) and make yourself desirable and start dating other girls. When the 3 months is up, casually "bump" into her and bring a hot girl along with you. This will raise your social value in her eyes (since you are with a hot girl after all) and will bring you back to even-field in her mind. Also be ambigious (dont tell her you guys are dating or anything). The girl you bring along should cause a slight twinge of jealousy if you do it right. At the end, set up a date with her and tell her you want to meet alone to catch up (Seeing as to how you guys havent seen each other for 3 months). This time around, dont fook things up. There wont be a 2nd chance.



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Answer 3

You didn't actually disclose what made you screw up in the beginning. But from my point of view, if you truly care for her, and if she knows that you have feelings for her, it's important to find out how she feels. Maybe you should meet up, talk about something and gradually change the subject. Don't be too forceful, though. If she reciprocates, then that's the time you'd wanna seal the deal and ask her to be your date for the prom. However, don't put yourself down if she doesn't feel the same. It's a good thing that you are man enough to acknowledge your feelings for someone and if she doesn't realize that then it's definitely her loss. Good luck! =)

Answer 4

Although she thinks of you as only a friend, there is still a slight chance she might like you. I know everone will probably tell you this but you should tell her how you feel. If your too chicken, maybe you should give her something romantic like flowers or a poem for valentine's day. Like secretly give her something. Leave hints that it's from you. I'm suggesting you write something and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't feel the same way about you, you can always ask her to prom and go as friends. There is nothing wrong w/that. Sometimes it takes a while for someone to realize how they feel about that someone. Good luck. =]

Answer 5

You sound like a PERFECT GUY!!!! However, if not meant to be, it will not happen! You need to focus on a NEW prom date and hope to see your girl there and somehow meet up. If not: WASN' MEANT TO BE!!! I have plenty of those guys from high school but are still friends with them 15-20 years later. No harm on ANYONE!

Answer 6

There is no possible way to MAKE someone fall for you, there has to be a connection between he two of you. I would try talking to her being honest with her telling her the truth about how you feel over some Starbucks, cause who doesn't like coffee?

Answer 7

Just talk to her as a friend for a little while and then slowly add the flirting. Not too much though or she'll know what your up to. If this were me in this predicament I would be joking around with her but nothing to stupid or you'll skrew it up

Answer 8

If she liked you, she would have showed some kind of interest. Be smart and try not to get your hopes up. If she already knows you like her and she has not made an equal effort or dropped any hints, you may just be wasting your time. I know it sucks to hear that, but it's better than being rejected.

Answer 9

Sounds like you need to move on to plan B...but if you aren't afraid to crash and burn on plan A, then tell her how you feel about her and ask straight up if she has any interest in getting back together (I doubt it if it's been 3 yrs and she hasn't yet...duh) you'd like to take her to the prom...she'll proabably blow you off but it sound slike you need to find out where you stand once and for all...

Answer 10

wOoOh, that's a disaster dUde!
I meAn yOu like this girL fOr almOst 3 yEars and untiL now shE dOesn't knOw thAt yOu likE hEr?!

jUst bE trUe tO yOurseLf..
ask hEr tO gO oUt with yOu..
teLL hEr yOur feeLings..
i'm sUre she'll unDerstAnd yOu..
stArt cOurting hEr..
stArt shOwing hEr that yOu cAre fOr her..
fOr exAmpLe, if sHe nEed sOmething, let's sAy, shE's thirsty, givE hEr a drink.. haha, (i knOw my exampLe is sO cOrny, bUt i hAvE this sAme sitUAtion anD it work).. or heLp hEr whEn shE havE prObLems sO thAt shE wOuld fEeL cOmfOrtabLe with yOu,.

it's FebrUary 14, Valentine's Day dUde! sOo, ask hEr oUt!

thAt's aLL..

gOt tO go!

Answer 11

never hurt a heart that loves u,
coz wounded hearts are like crushed flowers that never bloom again but leave the perfume on the hands that crush them !!!!