I am 18, almost 19. I had one serious relationship that lasted almost 3 yrs and now it has been over 6 months since it ended and I feel hopeless. I am much more independent now and great. But I am lonely and I can't seem to meet anyone. What should I do?
2007-02-10 19:39:42 · 9 answers · asked by Reese W889 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend, some good answers have been given here. I will add only that we should always keep an open mind and try to find inside ourselves a true constructive feeling and keep it most of the time. When it's lost, look for it again. Isn't is beautiful to feel romantic towards life and other people? Feel strong for we are all strong. Love, love and romantic feelings.
6 months is a short time only... be patient and let yourself ... GROW. Cultivating happy, loving feelings and an attractive external will surely attract and keep a new mate.
My best wishes..
2007-02-10 20:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wud take definitely sum more time to heal... live through ur disappointment... its better if u r independant for sum more time... n besides when u get over this depression u wud definitely meet someone... its just that u have too much to take in right now.. time will heal and u wud find a great girl!!!
2007-02-10 19:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ashwin k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax.
Being depressed after the end of a relationship is perfectly normal.
You'll meet someone, but only after you've recovered.
2007-02-10 19:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being anti social is ok. you have weird feelings liek " why do YOU have to do everything yourself?" The only thing you can do is just slap yourself and start going out, as in becoming social again. look presentable, and go out everywhere ESPECIALLY family dinners and partys. dont miss them. in the end fmily is what you got, and your best friends. just think of NOTHING, grab a car and GO! GO GO GO!!!
2007-02-10 19:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy being young and have a blast. Before you know it you will be married and watching the kids sooooooo..... Just enjoy where you are now in life and and be patient.
2007-02-10 19:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by yellow_ghoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobby or sport, something that fulfills you without you depending on another.
2007-02-10 19:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by aouija 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live like a rebel and fly by the seat of your pants
2007-02-10 19:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by casperenrag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey babe let ur hair down & go out dancin have a few drinks & try & get layed.
2007-02-10 19:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw relationships duude do what you wanan ... lie your life have fun... listen to Eminem
2007-02-10 19:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by jamshed007us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋