what if he is cheating?

Question

I have had this feeling like something wasnt right between me and my boyfriend. I have always trusted him and never had a thought that he might be cheating on me. About a month ago I had a dream he did and I told him about it and he got all defensive saying he would never cheat on me, that he knew what it was like, that he loved me and he couldn't believe i would think like that. Well i wasn't accusing him and i thought it weird that he seemed so defensive. So i have been like paying close attention to what he says and does. I haven't came up with much (except that he has been into more porno lately) until tonight, I found some hair in my bathroom sink that is not mine nor his. I know it wasn't there before i went to work. Also this morning he had a different smell on his chest but not an his clothes. It was a weird smell not female nor male like smell but it was a good smell. am i just being paranoid or should i be concerned.

what should I do if he is cheating? how do i find out for sure?

Answer 1

Follow your instincts, if you think he's cheating, he might be. But don't rush to judgment, make sure you're not making mountains out of molehills.
Ask him flat out, the eyes don't lie if you know what to look for in them.