he is e perfect guy to mi.the kind of guy tt i like:gentleman,sweet,responsible,caring,confident.everythin tt i could ask for.
however,before he met mi, he had 1 gf.his ex doesnt noe hw to appreciate him.he has told mi bout her when we were juz friends.bout hw she brush him off n stuffs.he was reali hurt.
he came to noe tt i like him n he does like mi too.since then,he has done some reali sweet stuffs for mi n has reali touched mi on occasions.i've done alot for him too n he feels it too.
we knew each other thru his cousin whom also like mi.everyone know tt his cousin likes mi bt no one, nt even our bestest friends,know tt we likes each other.
aft 2mths,he has decided tt we shudnt carry on like dis n so decided to remain friends.i has accepted and respect his decision.
however,it has been almost 2 mths and my heart has been hurtin ever since.i've tried to forget him bt whenever i heard our songs or anythin,i'll be reminded of him n everythin else... someone plz tel mi wad to do...
2007-02-10 19:06:03 · 8 answers · asked by AngelQ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wanna try to forget him... bt how?? though theres other guys ard mi right nw, none can be compare to him...
2007-02-10 19:21:00 · update #1
i still feel i want him...
2007-02-10 19:24:33 · update #2
If you are going to stay parted then time will help you to heal. If this is your first love then it will be more difficult. to get over. You need to get over this and just let him have a tiny little place in your heart and let yourself make room in your heart for someone else.
2007-02-10 19:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts I know , but I applaud your mature attitude . The pain can FEEL everlasting but allow a positive spin to come from this. Tell yourself how much more stronger you'll be when this passes. The best thing you could do is to redirect your energies into some empowering endeavor. Perhaps helping someone in need will take your mind off of your pain. It will also give you a deep sense of satisfaction. Remember, it will pass.
2007-02-18 18:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by shesonit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After trying to decipher what you ask like reali etc.I finally figured out that he had a girlfriend but she was mean. That you have friends (bestest???) that dont even know you like one another. He obviously just wants you as a friend and nothing else. He has decided this after seeing you for two months. His feelings are not for you as a girlfriend. I would give myself time and not think about him as much as possible to try and get over him. Try to improve yourself as your spelling and speech leave a lot to be desired and concentrate on these rather than on him.
2007-02-18 13:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by genie81au 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and ask him 2 be honest with u. ask him if he have though about the relationshi or u at all lately if he say yes get to to talk about it, if he say no leave it alone. if he say yes and ask y u asked express ur feelings but if hesaid no and askedy, just say u were asking and curious. u might need to withdraw from the friendship for a while because this is what make it harder seeing him and talking to him hoping for more between u 2 again. by asking this u get ur answer without having to put ur feelings on the line and he knowing that he hurt u like this.
2007-02-18 18:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by cute_dimples2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a shot and ask him out if he says no then move on. good luck
2007-02-10 19:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every one desrves a second shot
2007-02-18 18:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by victor u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to say .....NEXT!!!
2007-02-10 19:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋