look, my ex girl friend wants to get back together with me, she wrote the sweetest love note ever! I dont know how i could've said no to it(i said yes by the way). Thing is she broke up with me in sept. b/c she was too busy (with extra ciricular activities) , and at X-mas time we got back together but brok up in like 5 days. I really wanna be with her, but i dont know if i can trust her to stay with me, (she said she would this time thou) and also i dont want to go out with her because i dont wanna get hurt again, and i can see right now that she is getting quite busy with her dance. I like her soo much but i dont know what to do??
2007-02-10 19:04:22 · 8 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she realy really loves you, she would want to spend time with you and not betray you like that. If you want to go out with some1 then both of you guys should make an effort to trust one another and be with each other. I know you want to be with her it happened to me to... But you have to move on with your life coz it's terrible gettin hurt. Thats not how life should be.
You can be happy if you just try get over her. Make the right choices. There are so many other girls that can derserve you and wants to be with you or even a girl that you can trust. It will be hrad but This what happened to me and I know how you feel.
2007-02-10 19:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you can see that she doesn't know what she wants, the only option that I can give you is for you to not get back with her right now and look for someone else. Give the other person your all and try to be completely committed to them. If something inside of you still tells you or directs you towards your ex, then you should follow your heart.
Do what feels right, but also do not settle for less than you deserve.
2007-02-11 03:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by flare_78942 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing extraordinary with the sweetest note (you will eventually find many who have that sweet nature, or even better).
Move on and forget about her. Most women still keep their exes for emotional stability (self interests only). please do not let yourself be victimized by such. There is more to sweetness, a good heart is. She obviously does not love you for the right and best reasons.
Sorry.
2007-02-11 03:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kiosk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if does she reali noe wad she wants?
if she doesnt noe... den u shud noe wad to do... it could be that she loves u bt has so much commitments that she doesnt noe wad to do wif u so she feels tt she'll juz haf to chuck u aside for awhile... too busy is no way a excuse to break up...
think bout y u like her so much n is she worth u gettin hurt? or is there another better ger out there waitin for u...
2007-02-11 03:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by AngelQ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could have missed you and want you back. Or she could just really need your friendship and not intimacy.
2007-02-11 03:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a pussy and drop some f*cking balls
2007-02-11 03:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-11 03:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE A MAN - PERIOD
2007-02-11 03:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋