2007-02-10 19:00:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah. If this is on your mind, which it is, and this is your currecnt situation, which ill assume for the better part, than you need not to worry so much. worrying is praying for what you dont want. 1) it is a birthright to be rich and you have the absolute power to become extremly wealthy. 2) if you focus on a great girl coming into your life she will come and money wont be an issue.
While your raveling these concepts around your head...just take girls out on dates that dont cost any money or very little money....like the beach, sight seeing, a special place where you can just talk...use your imagination.
2007-02-10 19:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Keith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
when i was in college, i was next to broke. my part time job paid for my tuition and books. luck would have it that my boyfriend (now my husband) did not have big expectations. i used to turn him down when he asked me out. of course i was worried thinking he would think i had no interest in him so i decided t otell him how i was not comfortable going out with him and pay for nothing. he didn't see the problem.
he worked at a restraunt and would save his comp meal and picked me up. i had our beverages and prepared some food and went on a picnic almost every day. we stayed home and watched tv or spent time at the library together. we searched for sales and shopped together.
as long as the both of you don't mind this kind of dating, it's really not that bad.
2007-02-11 03:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by we-well 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be .. there are millions of wonderful things to do for free in this world that are the most romantic things you could ever do for a woman.. they love it even more than something you paid big bucks for.. so well think about .. if you need any other information on this feel free to email me..really i grew up poor and the women never seen to mind we did fun things and they always enjoyed the things we did.. so money isnt everything just remember that ..
2007-02-11 03:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, Don't let MONEY rule your life. If you want a Woman - you do what it takes to get her, and you don't care about money - whatever it takes. You set the plan first and then figure out where the money comes from. You don't just plan your life around your lack of money - you plan your life first - and then the money comes in somehow. Money isn't worth worrying about. It is'nt worth the stress, life is too short to spend time worrying about money - it's too short. promise. it isn't worth worrying about - I promise you. money comes and goes, but are you telling me you'd let the right girl go just because of money? If you need money to get the girl and she's worth it - sell your stuff, get the girl.
what's she worth to you.
people are more important than money. You can't serve God and serve money either. Same for people. You can't serve people and serve money either. And you can't get a girl and get money either - you can't. it doesn't work.
2007-02-11 03:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once. Generally I don't like men with a lot of money because when you split they can mess u up.
I like to spoil a man (when I have one) and if I am not financially strong enough then I feel it.
2007-02-11 03:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by Destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.... i just thought of neat ways to spend time together that didnt cost alot---invite them over for tv time---make microwave popcorn and just relax====go to a park and take a walk---
money can kae you happy--or make you miserable---ive had both---honestly--broke wins hands down every time
good luck
AERO
2007-02-11 03:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Aero-Smith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the easy solution would be to just go and get a job, then you don't have to be scared anymore...
2007-02-11 03:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
2007-02-11 03:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by Kiosk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋