I have this best friend who is a guy and we are having sex every night... but the problem is that he says that he says that he could never date me but I really like him... should I stop having sex with him and act like I don't like him back or should I tell him how I feel?
2007-02-10 18:52:15 · 7 answers · asked by Brittanee04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop giving him a free ride hes obviously an ego tripper who dosent care about you as a person, what you need to do is dump that loser and let him rot. If you stop making yourself available then he might show some intrest, its natural for guys to want what they dont have. he will start respecting you when you respect yourself
2007-02-10 18:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask be askin yourself...
Are you really willing to invest your emotions in this kind of relationship?
Do you want some commitment? Or are you okay with this situation?
For me, i think he's just using you. I know from experience that it is really hurtful to be hangin in a relationship. Where you don't know where you stand. Also, given the fact that you consider him to be your bestfriend, he shouldn't be taking advantage of you.
The most important thing in a relationship (or lack of it) is communication. Set him straight. Ask him point blank what he really wants... and if you're not comfortable with the set up, then back away.
In the end... no matter how we deny it... we girls always end up losing in this kind of relationship...
good luck... (-_-,)
2007-02-11 03:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by KaTaRiNaDaL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and keep having sex. If it's good for both why stop a good thing. He doesn't have to wanna date you for it to be a good thing for both of you.
2007-02-11 02:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by allindotcom@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are having sex every night with him, but not dating? what's wrong with you? obviously, you are both using each other, even though you are having second thoughts about it, you aren't putting a stop to it.
2007-02-11 02:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do both of them. but you know .if he gets the milk free why should he buy the cow. got it,. maybe you need a break for a little.give him time to think About it. good luck to you
2007-02-11 02:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you like him once. if he doesn't go for it, and doens't make you feel awesome about yourself, then ditch him. hes just using you. friends not screw their friends and say they could "never" date them.
2007-02-11 02:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel
i think hes just saying he cud never date u cuz he doesnt know how u feel - so goahead tell him how u feel..
2007-02-11 02:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋