We realy love each other but my family hates him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
actualy im just 13 and his 14 yrs old but can't he be my boyfriend.
this valentines how can I be wiht him we understand that we need to finish are studies first. But even though the last time I talk to himmy mom saw me and she said the more I hang out with him the more i'll suffer. what will I do?
2007-02-10 18:50:40 · 9 answers · asked by lonley_gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could see him after school on Valentine's day...hang on for a couple of hours
2007-02-10 18:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has been around a few years longer than you have. Sometimes they can see trouble coming when you can't. Did you ever hear the expression that 'love is blind'? You are emotionly caught up in you situation and can't really think straight. Love does that to us all! Since your mom thinks that the more you hang out with your boyfriend,the more you will suffer,I'm inclined to think your mom to be right. And nobody loves you like your mom does,and she seems to trying to be looking out for you.
I know a mom who let her 13 year old daughter run with guys in their 20s and would get in at 4:00 am. The girl is pretty messed up now at 19 years old. And everyone who knows the family and what's going on throws all the blame on the mother for being so lax with her daughter. Best wishes to you.
2007-02-11 03:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by doggybag300 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is solution but it depends on whr u are... in the western countries... u have much more freedom and the life style is different than in countries like Inida.
I think ur desire to be wid ur bf is not a mistake. May be u guys can find device a plan to go out... may be u can do tht on 13th istead of 14th so ur parents wont doubt you...
If u feel free... please IM me on Yahoo Mssngr... we cud discuss the matter....
2007-02-11 03:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by WizGuyShyam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very young and probably don't know what love is. Get your priority's right and finish your studies.
2007-02-11 02:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl i know your problem
i have a problem like it too
just talk to the guy first
and tell him that, when you rEACH college
thats when he can be your boy
just understand you parents first okay
youll get it somehow
2007-02-11 02:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that your mother only wants what's best for you and listen to her. Learn how to spell, too.
2007-02-11 02:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom's right.You are not in a age to take decisions,so just keep this to friendship.
2007-02-11 02:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gosh I remember those days. I am so glad I listened to my parents. Its not what you want to hear, I am sure.
2007-02-11 02:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by friday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u love him it don't matter what yo family say
2007-02-11 02:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by miss laffy taffy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋