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Hi,
I have been in love since 10 months. But the problem is that she has been operated one side breast surgery. due to that it is artificial. I am fearing that if my parent come to about this they will not agree to accept her as a daughter in law. So what should i do ? I am in dilema. for last 2 weeks i am just ignoring her phone calls.

2007-02-10 18:14:15 · 17 answers · asked by syed i 1 in Family & Relationships Family

17 answers

Are you a boy or a man? If you want to marry her then do it. Or, you can stay a boy and do what your parents tell you. I'm sorry to be harsh but it's time to grow up.

2007-02-10 18:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 3 0

Sometimes life plays games with us and these are our tests , forget about your parents first be sure about yourself because Iam sure somewhere in your heart u yourself are not sure, u know very well that u can get a nice and beautifull girl and have peacefull and lovely life but the guilt inside u is stoping{please do feel awkward to what I am saying because u r a humanbeing and we tend to change our path when we find that the path which we were following is full of difficult turns and all.
So if u really love her as a person then only go ahead for marrige don ever marry her for for pity and all because if u do so then after sometime your relationship will end 'cauz it was not based on love but pity and that will be more painfull for her,because husband is the only strength in the life of a woman.
TODAY if u tell her that U caanot marry her because of her this conditin she will feel bad fo 6 months but then she will be able tostand again it won't ruin her life.

Now if u really love her and u r sure that u love her inspite of her present condition then go ahead and marry her because it is u who has to spend life with her not your parents .

ALL I CAN SAY AS A WOMAN IS BE FAIR AND HONEST TO U AND HER 'CAUZ A WRONG DECISION CAN RUIN HER FOREVER .

2007-02-14 05:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by bhushan 2 · 0 0

Ignoring her phone calls is the worst thing you could do. Do you know what kind of fragile state she is in right now? Switch the roles of surgery...and she didn't answer your calls...how would you feel?
Most parents just want their children to be happy. Having to get a mastectomy does not make her less of a person. If you parents think it does make her less of a person, then they have issues.
If you love her and want to be with her, then you need to get over the fear of what your parents will think. Then again, are you sure it is your parents that will have a problem?? Or do you have a problem with her having one fake breast??

2007-02-11 14:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by cala 3 · 0 0

well what ur doing is not right, dont ignore her phone calls, if ur so sure that ur parents are not going to accept her then u must be honest with her. having an artificial brest is not a crime. by ignoring her phone calls ur only hurting her feelings and maybe making her feel that a fake breast makes her less of a woman. if ur truly in love with her then u would not do this to her. if u accpet her as she isur parents would do to. also have u asked them, talk to them they may not feel the way u feel. in any case ignoring the phone calls ís not the right thing to do. communicate with her and ur parents its the only way out

2007-02-11 02:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Are you sure you love the girl?
it 's only her body that you want or 'she"?
Does it matter to you that she has artificial Breast?
What if you would had married her and later in life she had developed shuch illness and similar situations appears,have you left her for that ?
What if something happens to you,And she is asked to leave you?
Be honest to yourelf and take decision.
this matter is not for your parents but for you.I f you don't have any problem your parents will neither.Don't impose your thoughts on your parents.All parents want happiness of their child.
If ther is no other thing that your parents can object on and if you were sure to accept that girl before she had surgery ,what is the problem now?
Love is not mere making sex its much more.its giving not taking.How can you hurt someone you love?
think Dear and you will hav answer.
Don't ignore her, tell truth.

2007-02-12 06:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by Dingy 2 · 0 0

LOVE is blind.. It means partners negatives are invisible.. So if u truly love her don't leave her in this kind of situation and live a normal life.. for marriage is not only meant for sexual intercourse.. its sharing everything(Including one others grief). So don't delay.. CAll her and tell her that "I'll be always for U.. NO matter What ever comes against us in this world"(though these words look flimsy.. It has its own impact). And DOn't Forget to explain ur parents how much u love her.. they can understand Whats real love is all about..
SO ALL THE BEST....
Wish u a happy married Life... Brother..

2007-02-11 03:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by anjali 1 · 0 0

Are you really in love? How can you ignore her phone calls when she needs your support. Don't behave like a fool.

You had found your love and feel gifted for that. It is not easy to find true love. You are quite lucky in that regard.

Are you thinking about the physical relationship? I can tell you that it wont create any problem. It will be as natural as it can be. So please not refer that your parents will not accept it. It is you that matters.

Be brave my boy and go ahead.

2007-02-11 03:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Babul D 2 · 1 0

If you have the true love for her than face the consequences. Love does not depends on our body parts only. What will happen is she went trough the surgery if you were married, will you divorce her just because of your parents?

2007-02-13 12:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by yogasun2002 2 · 0 0

see if you want to leave her,you forget her and try for an another
girl friend,how many days you can ignore the phone calls of her
and hide the matter from your parents,so this is a solution for you

2007-02-11 02:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

why would your parents have to know??? it's between you and your partner.......I don't agree with artificial, however, it's a personal choice.......it shouldn't be a concern for your parents......it doesn't change the way she feels about you.....if you've been ignoring her calls, she might not be around for you to even worry about it.........i'd call her !!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-11 02:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by nemofish 4 · 0 0

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