so you have to give up on him ????
2007-02-10 18:13:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best thing is listen to sum depressing music get ur feelings out by drawing/poems w/e u do, sumtime and just reflect on the begining and then think of the good times. and then keep her with u like that memories and dont let let it manifest into feelings because ur goin to have excess bagage for the next girl to deal with, if she is happy and u love her then forget about her....you cant change the past but concentrate on the present, hang out with people party, get it out of ur system.
2007-02-10 18:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by dark_days7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a hard thing to do...especially if they are still involved in your life in any way. You just have to go on with each day as it comes, time will help you forget, and make you realize that it was better to put those feelings in the past and not waste your time on something that is never gonna end somewhere.
The most important thing I can say is, do not let this person play games with your head or your heart!! You have to make the mental decision to forget them first, which is a hard thing to do....and then you have to stand your ground and stick by it..even when they are trying to get you to give in.
2007-02-11 03:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm feeling that question. It's true you can't forget them but they'll just be blank in your mind for a little while but then once you see them, it feels like it's you against the world. You don't have to give up on him. Eventually someday I think a guy 10x better than him will come along and then I wouldn't regret it ever trying to forget him. He'll just be something in the past where the past needs to just be in the past, can't be brought into the future.
But if it's you, you can't ever stop loving him even though both parties know how it's going to end. You'll just have to bear the pain. Good luck.
2007-02-11 20:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By thinking that he or she is really happy and thats what we want for people we love.Dont get upset u will find ur true happiness soon.just wait and watch.Good luck
2007-02-11 02:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by cutiepie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for now..
be sure they know you still care.
2007-02-11 02:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋