what are some things i can try during oral sex...?

Question

what are some things that might make oral sex even better for my gf. as in me going down on her... i get the feeling i don't know what i'm doing or that i'm doing it wrong

Answer 1

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Answer 2

The only real way you're going to learn how to maneuver that area is by making her show you or have you tell you which spot gives the best feeling. It's hard to describe in words what you need to touch. But I will say it's still good if you can finger and give oral at the same time.
If you want you can eat things off of her just to make it a little bit more interesting. Use whipped cream, chocolate, etc. Make it fun!

I commend you for wanting to learn how to.

Word to the wise: never spit on the girl if it gets dry there. A guy did that to me and it was a turn off. Get some lube or something.

Answer 3

Best way to find out if you are doing it right is to ask her to be brutally honest and tell you what makes her feel good.. Because she most likely never tell you and make you think that you are the best lover in the world when in fact she is thinking you dont have a clue.. Just ask her she will respect you .. and not only that have more feelings for you because you respected and thought enough of her to ask.. there are so many guys that think they are great lovers and the women laugh at them behind their backs and complain..If they just took the time to ask the woman there is no better way.A woman can show you better ways to please a woman than anyone else.. so take it from me ask and listen..and learn .. then no issues ever..

Answer 4

ANYONE WORTH DOING IS WORTH DOING RIGHT

At some point, you and your GF should have the sort of relationship where you can talk about these things. If you are not there yet - or don't want to be perceived as anything less than a stud...you should read up and "fake it till you make it!"

Perhaps you should ask one of your lesbian friends. They are women who know what women want...experts in their field. Don't be shy. Accept the challenge.

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Answer 5

Focus more on the clit and less on pressure. Imagine your tongue is a soft paint brush and her vagina is the canvass. You need to stroke with the tongue yet use the clit as the centerpiece. There are literally millions of nerve endings in the vaginal area; light gentle pressure is the best. Work up to more aggressive actions such as sucking or "popping" the clit with your mouth and take your time, alternating between the two. I have made many, many women orgasm from this technique. Actually taught to me by a lesbian and who better to learn from?

Answer 6

Well it's great that you actually care to please her for starters. The best thing to do is ASK HER!! A stranger can not tell my husband what I like in bed. You can take the advice of a hundreds of people, but none of them are sleeping with your girl. So they do not know what she likes. Yo have to ask her, so you know she likes it. Some guys make the mistake of asking other people what to do to satisfy a lover...WHY?? Good Luck

Answer 7

Listen, First, Spred her legs also let her know that it's a gift by just letting you spred them for her. Finaly you let her know that her vagina opens up like a flower and that it's themost beautiful thing that you saw. Next you just start to make out with her virgina UP AND DOWN! With one hand use your thumb and your pointer finger to hold open her P lips and with the other hand use your pointer finger to finger her aventualy adding the middle finger. Remember all of this at once together. Now, with your mouth move up to her clit, place your lips there and just eat and suck for as long as you can. Trust me she will love it. With the fingers you have inside her bend your fingers up sideways or down slowly with out cutting her with your nails. Usually put your two fingers inside her and tilt them upward toward her stomach and feel and search for her G spot . Try to record every thing that you do for that is very important, so that you can always go back to that spot or position. Also lick her up and down front to back lick her asz for a while ( TRUST ME SHE"LL LOVE IT ) don't ever be ashame, suck her inner thigh's right by her vagina leaving her small hickies, and ask her do you love it? MOST IMPORTANT YOU MUST and YOU HAVE TO WAIT AND MAKE HER Come b4 you do LET HER KNOW THAT IT"S ALL ABOUT HER!!!! Then finaly when she can't anymore pull her by her ankles and give it to her really good with her legs wide open above you shoulders and make her come again and again .Turn her around doggie style eat her out like that again for about five minutes and again give it to her really good hold her hair while your at it. And your going to be the man. Practice and you will prevail. And never put your self down! The next time, do it again the same way mayybe add something else but don't change anything. ALWAYS SUCK HER VIRGINA NO MATTER WHAT. AND TALK TO HER DIRTY WHILE YOUR AT IT ( nothing discusting please) just fantisy thing you know.

Answer 8

Exploring together and finding the right spots is fun.....
Once the spots are located, each needs a special way of exciting it....
Use all the resources you have....tongue, lips and all...
Wet Luck!!!

Answer 9

Ha! To spice things up, how bout doing your abc's? Rumor has it, mints or cinnamon candies are a good time...

Take it from me, a true playa.

Good luck.

Answer 10

lol heres one my brother told me about a long time ago, if your not sure you know what your doing, then ur right you dont know, try tracing the ABC's with your tongue. or hell ask her to tell you what she likes