How can I get Her to call me? :( Text Based Relationship?

Question

Ok This is going to sound strange but through one of my cell phone services called upoc i met a really awesome girl.
We have only exchanged photos but chat on a daily basis through text.
She has gone through alot in the past year and dealt with 3-4 stalkers and she hasnt told me everything but it wasnt good...
I have been wanting to move forward to talk to her on the phone but she is dealling with alot of fear. And cant make the step to call me :(.
It is suprising how much feelings you can have though just text lol we have been chatting now for 2 months and there have been really hard times
where i couldnt take it anymore. 1 month or so she told me that if she needed to step up i should not talk to her and let her do that but i sorta did
but it didnt come across well... so here we are a month later. She knows that it hurts me. And that i want to talk to her but she cant make that step.

We tell each other we luv you and we both experienced really deep feelings. I am started to luv her alot...She told me she is going to suprise me and wait and c and i told her i have been waiting. What do i do?

We dont have each others # she has mine but we text though yahoo on phone and the upoc service through the phone... I have been really patient with her it just hurts..

She Lives in another state like 10- 12 hours away... Dont think she is a guy

Answer 1

tell her what u want but dont push her...tell her that u've waited and u understand but it wud make u happy if she did this and it wud show u that she trusts u after all the time u've been talking and its a good step for the both of u

Answer 2

Well, it sounds like the only thing you can do is be patient. Have you suggested moving forward with the relationship through email of instant messenger? Perhaps, if you stick in there a litle longer, she will get become more confident in you. But, you have to be fair to yourself, as well. If after a reasonable amount of time, she doesn't come around, it is just not a good time. you both have to be ready and in a good place to make something work.

Answer 3

if she cant make the next step she is soo not ready for anything else even a phone call and probably more! if you are looking for something serious to come out of this..... it probably won't happen anytime soon, so either deal with knowing she aint ready and may feel pressured by you or move in and when the time is right she will come around, if it was meant to be than she will call...if she doesnt than it just was not meant to be.

Answer 4

I wish I had an answer.

You two have each others phone numbers... I'm not sure why it would be hard to talk. Tell her, that you really care about her, and would like to talk, its been two months, I'm sure you two have gotten to know alot about each other.

Try to call her, see if she answers.

Answer 5

have you actually seen her like in video camera? maybe she's a guy that's why she wont let you hear her voice! trippy! why dont you ask to meet her in person for goodness sakes? good luck peace

Answer 6

u sound stupid if u want to talk on the freaken phone call her

Answer 7

tell her to