would it be wrong of me to send my ex an email an tell him how i feel to see if there is any chnce for us before i move on??
i still love him
we have been apart for nearly a year. is it too late???
and should i tell him all my feelings or just come out and ask simply if hed give us another chance???
we have had contact over the year and he has been driving past my house but he said it was coz he was worried bout me....
we were together for 4.5 years he is 30 and i am 23.
2007-02-10 17:46:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in the same position you are. For the past three years, I've been trying to get over him. It's been really hard on me and that's how I know it's love. I was going to just continue suffering until my mom told me about a guy she used to date. Except it was more like 40 years before she said anything to him about how she felt and, you know what, they both felt the same but never said anything. I decided I didn't want to wait 40 years. I only have his email so I sent him a long email. I'm waiting on a reply right now. I'm afraid he won't write back. But I think you should give it a try.
2007-02-10 17:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by MR. Tumnus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you still have feelings for him then I think you should tell him. Maybe on the phone or in person rather than email though. Driving past your house? Might want to be weary about that one. Sometimes, an ex still feels possessive over you even after a break-up. If he had reason to worry about you, I guess that's one thing. But generally, this is not a good sign.
Just make sure that you do want to give it another go and that you are not hung up on memories. It is easy to confuse. Remember that it did end for a reason and if that reason has not yet be addresses and worked out, it will still be there. Good luck!
2007-02-11 01:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by JustTalking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask for a meeting and ask him face to face.
It could be over lunch somewhere. A nice little chat should tell if he has a new GF or if he still cares for you.
You have to consider though , if you were together for 4.5 years and broke up, just why did the breakup happen. You dont want to get back in a relationship thats going nowhere.
2007-02-11 01:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you break up because you question everything to the nats ass? Good grief - stop asking so many questions and just tell the dude how you still feel and ask him how he feels - after a YEAR of no contact, don't expect everything to just fall back together because you want it to. You broke up for some reason and stayed apart a year...
2007-02-11 01:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.. I would try for it.
But why is he worried about you?
I don't think it's too late or too soon or anything. If he still cares about you enough to drive by your house then he might still have some feelings for you. It depends on why you broke up and if those problems will still be there when you get back together.
I wish good luck to ya!
2007-02-11 02:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything, ask yourself why did you break up. If the reason is grave and shows a great fault that can not be patched up in the core of your relationship, then it is better to leave it at that.
However, if you believe that whatever happened was quite stupid and things could be patched up, then call him up and meet with him and be genuine about your feelings and see how he feels.
Good Luck!
2007-02-11 01:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Pabs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wrong,I dont know why you broke up in the first place,but if you feel this way you should at least talk to him about things and just see where things may be. the worst he could say is he doesnt want to have a relationship and if that is the case than move on.
2007-02-11 01:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sarah,
U knw what i think tht u should definetly speak to him once. There is always a second chance and who knows it might work. If you dont you might feel that may be you could have started all over again,so please dont leave any chance where you can patch up.
All the best.
2007-02-11 02:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl before its too late and you will never get it out of your system, what do you have to lose? Good luck at least you will know where you stand after you speak to him, don't guess how he feels ask
2007-02-11 01:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on you'll find out if he all into you! you're to young to hold on to the hope for two! If it's meant to be it'll come back! Let a dog roam and he'll find his way home! But that doesn't mean
s!ut it up! just bal to yourself! Find out more about you and enjoy single life!
2007-02-11 02:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋