i am going with a guy to my school dance that realy likes me but i dont like him like that!!!!i do like my ex boyfriend though and he likes me and we want to go together but i already said yes to the other guy!!! how do i switch guys withought seeming like i did something wrong???????
2007-02-10 17:43:31 · 11 answers · asked by ilc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its very simple , just call him out for a coffee and tell him flat on the face what the situation is, i am sure he will not want to go out with anyone who does not consider him to be someone special , moreover it will be a great burden for you to sustain with someone u don't love anyway..
So just go ahead and explain it to him, he will understand and maybe u could be just friends with him.
2007-02-10 17:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said yes to the other guy! You can't switch now! If you do, you'll completely hurt his feelings, and if you aren't completely selfish you'll feel guilty and ruin your own night too. (I'm not saying you're selfish, my point is that the guilt you'll feel will ruin the dance for you too!) It's just a dance: by saying yes you are not agreeing to be his boyfriend or anything. Just go and have fun. If he gets the wrong idea, just explain that you just want to be friends. You can go out with your ex another time. You have plenty of time, don't worry.
2007-02-11 01:52:35 · answer #2 · answered by mrs. vader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant have your cake and eat it too. Just go with the guy and have fun then hook up with your ex boyfriend afterwards. Thats the best way to come out
2007-02-11 03:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Dobby_Baxter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. It's only one dance. Go to the thing with the one guy and afterwards make up with the other guy.
2007-02-11 01:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to be with the guy u don't like all throughout the night. you can ask ur friends to bring your ex. so u can dance with him too. just my thought. but don't blow him off like only 3 days beforehand
2007-02-11 01:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by yawnep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay true to your word
take the other guy
not ur ex
Tell the guy ur going with the truth
easy as that
2007-02-11 01:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ben_Riot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the one you said but dance with them both bc if you and the kid are just friends you can dance with whoever u want
2007-02-11 02:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exes are always nothing but bad news
People won't take you seriously if you don't follow up on your promises
2007-02-11 01:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant, but honesty is something that must be involved, dont string along the guy that you dont like, because its wrong
2007-02-11 01:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by Calebs Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked the other man out. so you got to go with him. make it a short nite. and if your heart tells you to go back to your ex. then do so.
2007-02-11 01:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋