My bf is 17 and I am too. He is always saying, "Wanna try sex?"
But I am not ready. He gets really really agressive when I dont.
He does bad things to me. But he said if I break up with him that he will kill me and my family. I am afraid to do anything
So one day I went to his house to talk to his mother. She wasnt home, but he was. I walked in his room and he threw me on the bed. He locked his door and kicked at me. He started cussin when i said I would tell his mom. Then he forced me to have sex! I am afraid and confused
2007-02-10 17:37:26 · 17 answers · asked by Kayle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK just called and they said they will get him. But then after a while he called. I am on with him now and he is yelling alot what do I say
2007-02-10 17:43:45 · update #1
I just answered your question about your best friend being abused, and then I saw this one.
You can see the abuse in your friend's situation. And you see the abuse in your situation. A bad bf is one who forgets your birthday. Your bf is beyond that because he raped you. Rape is a crime.
Not only do you need to help your best friend, you need to help yourself. Talk with your mom/parents about everything as soon as possible. And break up with your boyfriend. He is bad news.
Best luck and take care.
Addition: I am confused. I just read your other question...do you mean that you just found out that your best friend was killed? You trailed off with your answer. And, with this question, whom did you call about your bf? You will have to file a police report.
2007-02-10 17:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow hes angry. You should like tell the police or someone who can help u guys.. Or to get proof, you should get a voice recorder and record him and right away take it to the police and let them know and make sure they will protect u and your family. that is technically Raping you. that is very wrong.. and if he really respected you enough then he would wait til u were ready.. another possibilty, maybe hs is just saying that he willkill u all just to get u to belive that so You dont tel on him,. but You should get proof, then Tell someone. Or tell them anyways.. I hope everything is ok..
2007-02-10 17:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, that is NO boyfriend. No matter what he tells you, go tell someone what is going on. FIND HELP NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He RAPED you and you need to get away from this guy. If he is this aggressive now, he may kill you the next time, but then again, he may be saying this to keep your mouth shut.
Stay away from him. DON'T go to his house or talk with him on the phone. Don't open your doors to him.
Make sure your family knows about what he has done to you and pray he hasn't given you some sort of STD. Go to the doctor ASAP.
Call someone NOW and get help. We can only give you advice on here but please get some help.
No one has the right to MAKE you have sex. That is rape.
PLEASE, PLEASE get help and get this creep out of your life.
2007-02-10 17:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mary D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is a serious question...this guy is a total FREAK. You need to tell the police that he made a threat against you and your family and you're afraid to break up with him and he raped you. You can't seriously be considering continuing dating this guy. Maybe you should tell your parents. Talk to someone...he's a psychopath.
2007-02-10 17:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok thats bad
seriously that sounds like he loves u coz he wanna hav sex with u... i think u should get a restraining order and stuff ok just .... there is no much choice this is bad just go to the police and put a case on him and put him to jail and all ... dont get scared... and just get some protection and all. dont fall 4 him
just act like nothing is happening with him
2007-02-10 17:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by naina mrc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to go straight to the authorities with this one. This is really serious. He's raped you, and there's no denying that. And, since he threatened murder, he could very easily be put in jail, plus the fact that he raped you. Please go see a counselor otherwise you could very well be scarred for life. It really is for your own good, even if you love him. <3
2007-02-10 17:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen hunny-
no girl ever deserves to go thru that at all. you need to call the cops and tell them what has been happening with th e"death threats" and then the rape issue. if you don't, you're going to regret it. My ex held a gun to head -- and i didn't do anything about it and later on it got worse. so please take it from my experience and call them ASAP.
Take care!
2007-02-10 17:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by fashion_sprkl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents, and tell them the whole situation. Just remember that you handled everything like you were supposed to, and that you did not do anything wrong. It is very important to tell your parents, and they will know what to do.
2007-02-10 17:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by mattkarkoska 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart if you're being serious then you need to report him. You were raped and need to bring him forward. Go tell your parents then go tell the cops. Let them tell his mother. REPORT IT!
2007-02-10 17:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by shedevilnotunknown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bad BF???? he raped you!!!!! go to the cops. throw his a s s in jail!!!!!!!! why were you ever with this guy? stay away, and file a report. when did this happen? get checked out, and talk to someone about it.
2007-02-10 17:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋