k so me and my boyfriend (we are both 15) have known eachother since the beginning of the school year, but we have been going out for about 2 and 1/2 months. I love this kid to death, but for some reason i dont really like kissing all that much. I think it might be that he isn't that great of a kisser, but then again im not sure if he is bad or not because he is the only one i have ever kissed. so i dont really have anyone to compare it to... He loves to and i feel bad cause its like im "depriving" him or something. lol. He doesn't make me or anything, but i can tell that he feels bad when i dont want to. Is there something wrong with me or something? cause i like him sooooooooooooooooooooo much and nothing else is weird between us...
2007-02-10 17:29:42 · 15 answers · asked by Quedo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe it's just you're both not experinced and you're both nervous. relax and dont think about the kiss too much. just enjoy. try different lip moves, explore and have fun!
2007-02-10 17:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by dull pencil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young! This is probably why the desire isn't there. With maturity there will be plenty of time for this so enjoy being young without the kissing. Tell him how you feel ... Yes, you like him today but don't do something you don't feel to do. Find other things to do together! There are so many things young people can go do. Honesty is the best policy. Good luck!
2007-02-10 17:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by daffodil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you might not like kissing at all. He maybe a bad kisser and you maybe as well. Who knows? Probably the best solution for this is to talk to him, see what he says...He might feel bad, you might feel bad...but if you stay like this, you'll only suffer and you'll snap one day for sure. You'll hurt both of you more if you wait longer. Good luck and take care!
2007-02-10 17:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Este 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just not ready for that (physical intimacy) yet. OR maybe there's just no chemistry between you. Either way, I don't think there's anything wrong with you. There are good kisses and bad kisses. When you're with the right person, you'll love it.
2007-02-10 17:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by ThatLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Not when he is quite likely a bad kisser. Sometimes it takes practice.
2007-02-10 17:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by MR. Tumnus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will bet that he does not know how to kiss. You're probably his first, too. You should practice and ask him if you could try kissing your way.
Kissing is very sensual and wonderful with someone you are attracted to. Don't let it cloud your judgment. There's gotta be a way.
2007-02-10 17:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya that's wiered eh, you should definately learn to get over that because it will, like it or not, cause tention unless your bf is truely a great guy and can learn to accept this (in which cas he may be gay), but it's natural, nothing imoral or bizare about it.
2007-02-10 17:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by Liam R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its normal> i didnt like to for the longest time either. I dont know why. Maybe cuz I didnt think I was good. but You should make sure u tell him that
2007-02-10 17:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his kissing is bugging you in some way that you can put your finger on, you should go ahead and tell him. Teach him now, and it rewards you for as long as you're together.
2007-02-10 17:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT weird. I dont like kissing either, its just one of those things we cant explain. It doesnt matter who, and its nothing against them, I just dont like it
2007-02-10 17:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by ~jenn~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋