This is more complicated than the available space can describe. In summary, I have feelings for a girl at work that has a boyfriend whom she does not talk to very often because we work on the night shift. We get along very well, joke around, eat lunch together and at times I get the sense she is flirting with me. I give her rides home and take her out to eat and around times often because she does not know anyone in town. She told me she had a boyfriend and I do not want to be a sleazebag and ruin their relationship. However, she gives me so many mixed signals: linking arms while we walk, telling coworkers and I that the youngest guy she would date is one year younger (she knows I am a year younger), asking me if I had a girlfriend, telling me her relationship with her boyfriend was only serious recently and still is not very serious. I enjoy her company and do not want to ruin things between us, but do you think she has feelings for me? I know there is no way to win in this situation.
2007-02-10 17:26:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So it seems I have more space... Yes, I know everyone will say, "who says it won't happen to me?", but how would you feel if your boyfriend didn't make any attempt to call or talk to you. Also, she is not one to cheat. She has never had an ex, and is not looking for a fling. Guys have hit on her during company outings and she feels awkward, but is always comfortable around me. As I've said, it's complicated. And no, being co-workers means nothing, we're students.
2007-02-10 17:42:21 · update #1
I think you two definately have something there. Dont be afraid to ask her about it. Good luck
2007-02-10 17:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by ~jenn~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, as your co-worker, a relationship is a no-no.
Second, who knows what's going on in this woman's head. Is she a cheater? Is she just unhappy with her relationship but can't get out of it?
I say you keep it all business. Don't entertain her thoughts - apparently working the night shift together has gotten her thinking, but it's a dangerous road. It should't matter if she's interested because if she is, and you are, and you two get together, who's to say that what she's doing to her current boyfriend won't happen to you?
2007-02-11 01:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to have anything to do with a girl who flirts on the side? She'd do the same to you.
2007-02-11 01:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by JNM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should it matta.. the girl has a boyfriend. taken means off limits
2007-02-11 01:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its LUST dont ruin your friendship over it.
2007-02-11 01:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by MAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋