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There is this girl i liked at the beginning of my freshman high school year (and i am still in my freshman year) and i like her again...

the problem is that i messed up the first time, because i wasnt very good at talking to girls, and i kinda creeped her out, cause i never talked to her...but lately ive matured, and its a lot easier, like i dont get nervous and crap, and i automatically talk to girls now, no effort...i think it would take some real hard work and stuff to get this girl i like, and i need ur help

ive tried to forget about her, but i just cant...i moved on for about a month, but went back because i just couldnt stand it, shes so frickekn beautiful!!!!

so i wanted some help...any ideas of how to make her like me even the slightest bit?? list things like strategies (lol) and stuff like that....
PS: no notes

2007-02-10 16:46:50 · 7 answers · asked by German L 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

HEY, MAYBE EVEN GIVE ME AN IDEA FOR VALENTINES DAY, BUT WONT GIVE IT AWAY

2007-02-10 16:48:02 · update #1

NO! I KNOW HER PRETTY WELL, SHES A GREAT PERSON, WITH A GREAT ATTITUDE

2007-02-10 16:54:03 · update #2

7 answers

If you like her, then all you have to do is talk to her. Establish a real friendship with her first though, before you ask her out or anything. Just fun conversations, perhaps about things the two of you have in common. Maybe sports, or music. But remember to not come off as a stalker. That's why establishing a friendship first is important. Just remember to be comfortable and be yourself. Compliments are good, but don't overdo it. And if things go well, ask her out! Hang out and watch a movie, or go out to dinner. Double dates are a fun way to start out without making it awkward too. I think that's about it! Good luck!

2007-02-10 16:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by mrs. vader 4 · 0 0

Heh..I like how you said "I've matured" instead of "I'm mature" since we all know there's no such thing as a mature freshman......lol j/k.

Well, since it's so easy for you to talk to girls now, go talk to her. Just talk. Act like the time you "creeped her out" never even happened. If you just act natural, she's more likely to act natural too and "forget" about the time you were creepy. But you have got to start talking before you can get anywhere else. You gotta crawl before you can walk, man.

As for Valentine's Day, since you're just going to be friends for now, I'd start with something simple. A card and maybe some kind of stuffed animal. Girls love anything stuffed and soft, so you can't go wrong there.

Hope I was helpful, and best of luck to you.

2007-02-11 01:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by puckfreak02 3 · 0 0

The best thing you can do is go up and talk to her. There really isn't a method to make a girl like just a little. Like you said you matured a little and you talk to girls now, so it should not be a problem for you to go and speak to her. Just look at her as you see every other girl, as a regular person.

2007-02-11 00:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by cmsimmons1982 1 · 0 0

Maybe you should get her some flowers or chocolate for V-Day. She would LOVE that I am sure and if she doesn't like what it is, she'll atleast like the thought of it. You really like her, but if you don't tell her you like her, then she might move on and not even think of you like that ever. I hope everything works out for you!

2007-02-11 00:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by picture_perfect 1 · 0 0

u sound like a sweet guy. maybe u shood look into her attitude cuz u mite regret tlking to her in the first place. so she mite be pretty but do u like her attiude?

2007-02-11 00:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by ~~xoxox*jazmin*xoxox♥ 3 · 0 0

she dont like you!!!!! and no matter what yu do she aint gonna like you!!!!you cant make ppl like you you just have to be yourself and see what happens from that,,,as you get older you will find that all women are cheaters and the prettier they are the most likely they will cheat more often. pretty gals can get some faster that ordinary ones....but cute or ordinary they all are cheaters,,,,so dont forget that,,,,,

2007-02-11 00:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

just go talk to her..start over!
if shes in one of ur classes go sit by her...
it's not that hard

2007-02-11 00:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by love? 1 · 0 0

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