Me and my boyfriend are at the phase (so which my mom calls it) that we constantly break up and get back together. And it is usually me who has to beg myself back to him. And since Valentines day is in a few days, I really want us to be together. But, it aggravates me that we are always breaking up. I really like him. So if you say, forget him or move on, i will rate it low. Because I LOVE him. What do I do. I dont want to lose him. I am afraid that if we keep doing this, we will never get back together. He is mad at my ex and I think this is why. But, PLZ HELP!!!!!
2007-02-10 16:44:19 · 2 answers · asked by Kayle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly what you are talking about. I am in the same situation. Right now, I am not even sure if we are together or not. It is frustrating. I am probably not the best to give advice, but I would say give it one more try. Ask him back and talk to each other about how to make it better, try to share with him your needs and have him talk about his. Tell him you understand his side of things and want to try to be more giving because the relationship is important. Maybe the both of you can talk to a neutral person together to get an outside opinion on what you both can do to make the relationship more positive. Both of you should strive to be best friend and not let the bf/gf thing get in the way. I am not sure what the deal is with your ex, but keep the ex out of the relationship. If you care about this guy, stay away from the ex for a while, then there is no reason for him to be mad about it. Good luck and I wish you the best Valentine's Day ever!!!!
2007-02-10 16:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by Trying 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once in this situation...break up for good. Seriously. I feel so much better now (and have a smexy new guy that is stabe and secure) you desrve better.
2007-02-11 00:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Fara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋