2007-02-10 16:06:21 · 18 answers · asked by triestobekind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! I would never date anyone who wasn't themselves, and a male homosexual who is pretending to be straight is not being himself. If he isn't comfortable with himself there is no way the relationship would work, and what would you get out of it? If the relationship were to last you could love eachother, but if there was no attraction on his end, you would end up feeling lonely.
2007-02-17 06:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by yentruoc311 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well are you going to date him because you wanna help him? Or do you like him? Here are some tips i would tell you. Sure give him a chance... however let this be known.. BE HONIST with me all the time. If he feels its not working out cuz its not what he really wants.. then you are helping him find himself.. and its allways nice to help others. If he can not have a secrent life and only be with you.. then truting he will be forward with you.. i think it coudl work. Just a heads up if you get really attached and he decides the straight life isnt for him.. you can be left broken hearted or the fast track to being a fag hag.. and i dont mean that in a bad way. Just be aware he may change his mind and dump you.. just be prepared for that too going into it.. but on the bright side.. if he does go full homo... you can still be BEST of buds.. its fun to have a gay friend.. so good luck.. Would love to know how this all works out.
2007-02-18 16:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by pdsaturn76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did date one about 20 years ago. He wasn't trying to go straight, but he'd come and pick me up in his Navy suit, and take me to the movies and out to eat on the weekends. He was a fun guy and great to be with even if he was gay. I still think of him today!
2007-02-18 19:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by JBWPLGCSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as it was just casual dating certainly! expect a major relationship from this certainly not. this person has issues concerning his sexuality and it is not worth investing your heart in something that most likely will not happen.until this person can say this is who i am ,well keep it friendly and be there as a friend should be. if sex might be involved use a condom!
2007-02-18 19:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. There is no such of a thing of trying to live straight. Why would you want someone that have another sexual preference?
2007-02-17 23:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definaltly, i'm gay.
I have the same problem right now, i'm gay and trying to live a straight life. It's really hard.
2007-02-17 23:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by llopezmunster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No probably not...other than the fact that he may have , or in the future come down with some diseases...I would say, I would not attempt to date him.
2007-02-17 18:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea give him a chance if you think hes serious about living straight
2007-02-18 15:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by xoloveyoulotsxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, no.
i just couldn't put my heart out there to risk him going back gay. i know a girl that did. they married. good for her. but, i feel down the road his gayness is bound to emerge. if he is really gay. it is too complicated. too many issues. i say a big NO.
2007-02-18 23:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't but I think my daughter married one
2007-02-17 15:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by wildirishrose19522000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋