ok heres the deal , some ppl say im ugly and some ppl say im cute. Some boys hit on me and touch my butt they talk about my big boobs and they try 2 get WAY TOO close 2 me how do i tell them 2 stop with out bringing teachers into the situation ! u c the boys that do it are cool and i have 2 admitt it but sometimes i like the attention! i mean i dont like it when they touch me but... i mean i cant pretend like it dosent make me feel good when they complement me ! ....is that slutty or is it normal .....PLEASE HELP ...I guess u can say im just confused
2007-02-10 16:01:30 · 13 answers · asked by jazzyj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO U R NOY SLUTTY AT ALL EVERYONE WANTS 2 FEEL GOOD ONCE IN A WHILE. DONY FEEL BAD BECUZ U LOOK GOOD JUST TAKE WHAT U HAVE AS AN ADVANTAGE. AND AS 4 THOSE GUYS JUST TELL THEM DONT TOUCH U BECUZ YOU'RE UNCOMFORTABLE SO STAY UP IIGHT!
2007-02-10 16:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal to want to be liked and complemented. You keep allowing them to grope you and pretty soon you'll have quite a reputation. Then they'll all be doing it to the ho (you). It is your body. Own it. What would you do if they grabbed your money, your cell phone or your lunch? Look them in the eye and say I didn't give you permission to touch me, so knock it off. (Well, after that, I guess he'll have his hands full tonight, too).
2007-02-10 16:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is talk to the boys. Tell them you're not comfortable doing stuff like that and that you would really appreciate it if they'd stop. But, if it becomes necessary you need to tell someone (teacher, principle etc..) Don't be afraid. Just do what you have to do.
2007-02-10 16:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is normal, i know what you are talking about, you don't want to do anything to rude to get them to stop because then maybe then nobody would want to complement u also u like the attention in gets u even though it is kinda disrespectful. it is definatly normal i think that everyone is that way they just don't admit it!
2007-02-10 16:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by ♥nikki♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno how you feel,except not at school, for me it happpens at the summer camp i go to, and guys touch my butt, and just touch me n stuff, and i dont like it too much, but i love the attention!!! and its not slutty,its not your fault that they do that, but if u really really h8 it wen they do that, then just b like totally serious n tell them to stop , but if u just want them to cut down, be more serious about it, but still all flirtyy, but its not slutty, its more...flirty! lol,
2007-02-10 16:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
letting them touch your butt and not doing anything about it is slutty
think about what you asked
you said that you like their attention but then you said that you want them to stop.
What is it that you really want????
2007-02-10 16:07:46 · answer #6 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha. yeah im 14 and i enjoy this as well. Everyone likes to be touched sensually. It feels good! And its completely normal.
2016-05-25 08:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand but they should not touch you like that but just tell them to stop touching you maybe the girls you go to school with will start talking about you and they will start to hate you so do this asap
2007-02-10 16:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what happened to me last year...I liked the attention too...just dont let them do it it makes them want u more
2007-02-10 16:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by m.m.m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let them treat you like that. do anything to stop it - if it takes teachers, that's what you must do, cos that is just wrong- respect yourself.
be assertive - tell them not to do it - don't ask. you have a right to feel safe and comfortable
2007-02-10 16:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋