yea so i need help. and i was wondering if you can help me...ok so i have this boyfirned and he is always pressuring me to "do" stuff with him..and i fake sick or ill to try to back him away..it has gotten to the point where i dont even wanna be around him in his house! wat should i do to tell him that i am not comfortable to do this..without him breaking up with me??
2007-02-10 16:00:23 · 9 answers · asked by chump 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is pressuring you to do things that you do not want to do, he is the wrong guy for you, he should understand and respect you as a person! and if he can't, then you are better off going somewhere else. dont worry about him breaking up with you, you need to break it off with him if he is doing this to you and will not stop!
2007-02-10 16:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting some self esteem and demanding some respect. if your boyfriend is "pressuring" you, he is not into you he is into himself, and probably scared he will die a virgin. ask him if he says a little prayer each night that he wont die before you cave in or that he finds someone else that will cave for him.
2007-02-10 16:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anne D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him that you don't want to do anything. If he really cares, he will understand and if not, there is nothing left to do except break up with him. You have to stand up for what you want.
2007-02-10 16:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not comfortable let him know! if he doesnt understand then hes not worth it! and maybe he is feeling pressured from other people (friends) that he has to do that stuff, possibly he doesnt really want to do it either...you never know unless u talk about it! wouldnt it be aweful if neither of you wanted to do it and you did! :o
2007-02-10 16:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by ugly truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't even care about him breaking up with you...because obviously....he doesn't care about respecting you...you should never let a guy get away with something you don't agree on...If he really likes you then he'll respect you...and if he doesn't respect you...he's not worth having you
2007-02-10 16:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by *05* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it and tell him your not comfortable.
if he breaks up with you then he just doesn't understand
and he's an ******. theres better people in the world that
will respect you.
2007-02-10 16:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if hes pressuring you a lot i think you should break up with him
2007-02-10 16:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should not lied to him about this, if you are not
ready to do what every then that your choice and if he has
a problem with that then he not the one that you need to be
with in the first place.
2007-02-10 16:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM THE TRUTH "YOUR NOT READY" AND TO CHILL THE **** OUT YOU SHOULDNT HAVE TO OPEN YOUR LEGS FOR SOMEONE TO STAY WITH YOU AND IF THAT IS THE CASE THEN BREAK UP WITH HIM AND FIND SOMEONE HOTTER
2007-02-10 16:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋