ok this may sound silly, but my boyfriend and i havn't had intercourse yet in our lives, so i want it bad, its starting to stress me out, and depress me cause i don't think he wants it yet, so can i burst out crying infront of him, and pretend i'm crying about something else, when i'm really upset that we havn't had intercourse yet? i won't tell him the "truth" why i'm crying.
2007-02-10 15:40:02 · 8 answers · asked by US 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You think that crying to him is going to push him a little further to the point of having sex with you? If he doesnt want sex now, crying and lying to him about it isnt going to help. If hes a good boyfriend, all he is going to do is hold you and be there for you. Talk to him and tell him you want some dick and you want it now. If hes a real man he will do it, if he doesnt, you have to respect his wishes and wait until he feels he is going to emotionally mature enough to have sex.
2007-02-10 15:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sexxi~Hot~Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, it does sound silly. You also sound way to young to become sexually active. All that crap about crying because you can't have sex. Seriously, grow up a little before making a decision that has all kinds of repercussions - such as pregnacy, STDs, and an emotional rollercoaster you wouldn't believe.
2007-02-10 23:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that whipped? uh... ya
ok listen. Most people on this earth want sex. Since you don't talk about it he probably won't either. If you're the type of person that is all happy-go-lucky then just start touching him. If you're not, then just act all innocent and start taking your clothes off.
CONFIDENCe!
2007-02-10 23:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by temporary1111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be better if u can tell the truth without the tears and just explain how it is makin u feel.
2007-02-11 00:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by Cherelle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Horny? Grow up! How long have you been with this guy? Maybe he wants to wait till he marries the "right" person.
2007-02-10 23:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh? huh? yep, that's silly. really. you can cry and let him know that you are having a difficult time with desire for him. maybe you two should get married asap. ? peace
2007-02-10 23:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth.. itz better than covering it up and eating u up inside
2007-02-10 23:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to chill the hell out. What sexual fustration does... eeek
2007-02-10 23:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by CandyCane1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋