OK. There is this girl who i am pretty much in love with (im 16). As far as i know she doesnt like me, she flirts with me but is much more flirtatious with other guys. We hang out a lot (watch movies, chill in groups of people, chill alone, etc.) but i want her to know how i feel because I want her to like me back. I dont want to ruin the relationship we already have and I especially dont want to make it awkward when we see each other every day in school. What do I do??????????
2007-02-10 15:35:54 · 7 answers · asked by dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Dude, I am in the same situation, but instead of being the guy I am the girl. This waht i would want my friend to tell me:
"I know this is going to be pretty random and all, but I want to let you know that I don't want this to ruin our relationship. I like you, more than a friend. And I was wondering if you would like to become more than friends. If you don't its fine, we can still be the best of friends. I would rather have you as a friend then nothing at all. So what do you say?"
If my guy friend told that to me I would just ~MELT~!
Do you know if she likes you back?
If you wanna chat e-mail me at ambi_09@yahoo.com
Maybe i can help you out more and u can hep me out as well!
2007-02-10 15:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to her that you really value your friendship but you would like to take her on a date but also add that if she thinks it would ruin your friendship then you had rather not. This way if she is not interested it will give her a way out without any embarrassment to anyone and if she is interested in you she will say that it will not ruin your friendship and you will have the date you want. And that is a start.
2007-02-10 15:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by babysnake2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she knows you like her doesn't mean shes going to like you. Take your time. Feel out the situation. Trust me your not in love.
2007-02-10 15:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by CandyCane1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is not seeing anyone then now is your chance. ask her on a date for the 14th, or send her a card with your name on it, or at least an unmissable hint as to who you are!, Really, just take the chance.
2007-02-10 15:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by wally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to throw fear out the window my man. Just tell her in a way that isn't cheesy.
2007-02-10 15:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get someone else to ask her wether or not she would date you?
Make sure it's someone you trust.
That way you know first before you make your move
2007-02-10 15:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by kriskros54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the person above me
2007-02-10 15:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋