2007-02-10 15:30:49 · 22 answers · asked by Keke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wonder why too, i have this problem.
2007-02-10 15:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably shooting too high. Let me tell you that there are literally LEGIONS of guys out there who would go out with you.
Be sure not to try too hard. Not many guys want a desperate girl... they want a prize to call their own.
I can tell you this too: The older you get, the easier it becomes.
If you are still in school, just relax, school is a suprisingly rough place to start relationships! You may have to wait until you graduate, and leave the immature high-school mentality behind.
If you are done school, then just be patient, and put yourself into situations where you can meet new people. And the most important tip of all: Don't be afraid of rejection. Like I said before, don't try too hard, but do try very often!
If you are a good person with a positive attitude, you will find a boyfriend... and I know it sucks, but it may take some time.
Good luck.
2007-02-10 23:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just hard to get the RIGHT boyfriend
2007-02-10 23:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by Manderz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not hard to get a boyfriend. It's hard to find a good one :) I'd say even next to impossible.
2007-02-10 23:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by CandyCane1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several factors:
1) Are you around enough cute, eligible singles? Do they live nearby, are there opportunities to get to know someone?
2) Are you ready for a boyfriend, or are you sending out a keep-to-yourself/leave-me-alone vibe (because you don't want to get hurt again or aren't happy with your life)?
3) Any number of factors that might be turning somebody off/viewing you as a friend rather than girlfriend.
2007-02-10 23:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by joie_du_cor 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
its easy for you women you just put an online profile up and you get tons of guys swarming around. Guys ... we gotta play "the game" and usually compete with a ton of extra guys cuz they got a woman but they still want to woo you to get some on the side kinda deal... although i'm finding women do that a lot too now lol
But you just got to look... if your lookin for a party kinda guy go clubbin or bar hopping if your looking for the smart type go to borders... (these type are usually more shy you may have to approach them first)
2007-02-10 23:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because to have a real boyfriend, it takes about 2 or so years of getting to know him inside and out.
2007-02-10 23:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by duck 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First there are more girls than boys in this world, that's why so many guys cheat too. Second you have to find someone you are compatible with. Third there has to be mutual attraction. And last sometimes it just takes the right circumstances. Good-luck in your search!
2007-02-10 23:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Tonya M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as someone who seems to always fall for unavailable women, i cant say im qualified to answer this question! But maybe you are trying too hard, and coming across as "very needy", play it cool and do your own thing, become an interesting person, then the guys will start to come to you!
2007-02-10 23:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by wally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not too hard to get a boyfriend girl . just give your self time, i know i did and it worked.
2007-02-10 23:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by sally 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to get good people. Keep searching and one day your prince charming will come right at your door.
2007-02-10 23:34:03 · answer #11 · answered by Lotus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋