Okay well, I'm not skinny but I'm not like really big either I DO have extra baggage, and people say girls are chunky when they're not indented now, and I do have extra baggage on my stomach, my friends tell me that I'm not fat, but they say I'm not skinny either, I know I'm not skinny, but I'm wondering do you guys think that its gross to see a girl with her top off that isn't skinny or slim and trim?
2007-02-10 15:25:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright, let me try and answer this as best I can:
It depends on the guy. Some will find chunky girls very, very pretty, some will not.
It would surprise you, but guys do not always find thin girls appealing, and quite often the oposite: They find them unattractive.
If the guy you're looking for is worth having, he won't judge you on your weight, but on your personality. People who judge solely on looks are fairly shallow anyhow.
Good luck with finding your right guy!
2007-02-10 15:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tony Graff 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a girl but I'm going to answer this question anyways...
Okay, if you don't feel comfortable with tight clothes or a bikini, don't wear one. If you look at your body in the mirror and you saw what you wore on somebody else with the same figure would you think they needed more clothes on? If yes, then you probably should wear more clothes, if you think that you wouldn't care if someone had the same figure as you and wore what you wore then don't worry about it. But from the way you described yourself, I would wear a 1 peice and I wouldnt wear tight clothes. Hope this answers your quuestion.
Ambi
2007-02-10 15:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha. same situation. i say im fat but ppl say im skinny. i have a lil extra baggage also but im happy wit it.. yes i do wish i was skinnier but guys say i have da *** and da chest so its fine! lol guess it wont matter if im a lil fat.. not huge either.. size 5 pants i am...
ive been wondering da same thing but listen as long as ur good they wont give a sht. Lates.
2007-02-10 15:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a little is ok, sometimes cute, but if you are say 25+ lbs overweight, it might be better to have a longer shirt. Beauty is deeper than a tummy!
2007-02-10 15:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by davelibby321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think skinny is gross. A little tiny tummy is cute, not FAT OK?
2007-02-10 15:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like skinny chicks, but it's the personality that really matters. Just be yourself.
2007-02-10 15:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by Yaasbut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curves are good. Bones are for dogs, and even they like a little meat on them.
Don't worry what others think. What's important is that YOU feel comfortable in your own skin.
2007-02-10 15:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as its not too much baggage it should b fine cuz if u have no shirt on the guy should b focusing on ur boobs instead of ur stomach
2007-02-10 15:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really but it depends on HOW chunky you are but its nice to see a normal girl and not some fat whale orsome anerexic(no idea how to spell)girl
2007-02-10 15:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. like someone said before if ur not like excessivly like over 300 punds type of thing. but from what your describing u seem like an average curvy girl.
2007-02-10 15:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Massimo D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋