That your pregnant by a 17 year old?This isnt a question for me so don't get ideas..
2007-02-10 15:19:35 · 21 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You just have to tell them. Or if you (or your friend, whoever) is/are arfraid to go it alone, talk to a school counselor or go to a crisis pregnancy center in the area. An adult there, or the counselor can set up a meeting with your parents to help talk to them with you so you are not alone. They can help you discuss your options. The sooner they are told the better. The fetus needs care while it is developing or if other options are chosen- the sooner the better, and less difficulties. Good luck
2007-02-10 15:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... the person in this situation can definitely expect the 17 year old to get rape charges filed against him. The 14 year old needs to just spill the beans to her parents, because honestly, they're going to find out eventually. There's no avoiding it. Besides, they'll be able to support the girl emotionally better, and provde for their grandchild better medically, financially, etc. by knowing and being prepared ahead of time.
You can't exactly say "Hey, mom... I think I'm in labor" and then expect her to be understanding when she doesn't know you're pregnant yet. (wink, wink) just kidding.
It's going to be hard, it's going to be tough and it's going to suck. I was 17 when I was pregnant, but my fiance and I had been engaged for a while anyways. We got married right away. That's not an option (or at least it shouldn't be) in this case.
Best of luck to your friend, whoever she is. She's going to need all the help she can get.
2007-02-10 23:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no matter what they will be dissapointed, but if they are level headed, than I would be straight forward and tell them, if they are bad tempered, tell them how sorry you are that you made this TERRIBLE mistake, is the person for or against abortion, because if they are for it, I think that for a person of that age, that might be the best bet, or have the parents take it in as their own....
2007-02-10 23:24:03 · answer #3 · answered by nutmehgy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to them and tell them the truth of course there gonna get maded but u r still there daughter and if they really love u then they would b thinkin about the baby and not whos gonna take care of it becuase it cant stay in the wound forever (if they find out by a doctor there gonna b very pissed)
2007-02-10 23:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just start a conversation and then while your talking think of somthing to say to them and try to convince them that it...well i dont wanna go any farther but its pretty sad a 14 year-old is having sex with a 17 year-old...well hope this helps
2007-02-10 23:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can tell your parents now or wait about 9 months later you show up with the baby and baby's daddy.
Have fun.
2007-02-10 23:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by limited_edition78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok... first tell someone you trust.. like your aunt or something or sister. that is if you have one. lol anyway you are a mother so you have to tell your parents .... thats sad... just dont hide it until it is obvious. just sit down one day and say... mom dad i think i might be pregnant and why did you do that in the first place... big mistake big big big
2007-02-10 23:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mannie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jus` be like, momma, daddy, I`M PREGNANT!
Lol i`m sryy jus felt like sayin dat...well, jus pick a good day wen they`re in a good mood an` everythangg and jus calmly explain to them ur situation and tell them that it wasn`t the most responsible and smartest choice yooh made but jus hope they understand ur point of view and the state ur in and they can help yooh get help and be prepared for ur baby...well hope i helped=)
2007-02-10 23:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by ThE_cOoL-cHiCk_fOr-lIfE_650 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just like that...Mom, Dad, I'm pregnant. What else can you say?
It's not like it's something you can HIDE, or take back because you didn't like the way it fit!.
2007-02-10 23:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's only one way to tell them, come right out and say it. In a situation like that, there isn't going to be any easy way to tell.
2007-02-10 23:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋