my boyfriend and i havn't had intercourse yet, i kinda want to ask him to have intercourse with me, but i keep chickening out, and i'm stressing out over this, i want it so bad that i'm slowly starting to show signs that i want it, what if one day i say "it would be wonderfull to have intercourse with you tonight" if i said that i think i would be really embarressed, why would i be embarressed to say that?
2007-02-10 14:56:11 · 16 answers · asked by US 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well when you are truely ready to do this you will not feel Embarressed and you will know when the time is right ok so dont rush in to any thing that you may Regret ok I wish you the best of luck and GOD Bless you.
2007-02-10 15:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by crystal a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be embarrassed by sex at all but should be very cautious. The 1st thing you should do is get on birth control and get some condoms. Also I recommend talking to your mother. I know it seems scary to do that but moms were young virgins once too. If you are mature enough to ask your mom for advice or to help you make the proper precautions then you are probably mature enough to have sex. Your mom may be upset at first, just tell you you respect her enough and feel close enough that you can share this with her and ask for HER advise. It's normal to be nervous, but you should tell your boyfriend that you have been considering making that big step and get his feelings on the subject. Most likely he is having the same feelings as you.
2007-02-10 15:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are the signs that you are not ready. Why do you want to rush it? You clearly sound to immature for this right now why don’t you wait, and see first if this is the person for you. Sex for the first time is very personal it should be with someone that you truly are in love with. Do not do this just because you feel like it! Feelings are fleeing moments they come, and they go, think about it carefully, because you do not want to regret this action for the rest of your life.
2007-02-10 15:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be easier to just try to lead him on like try touching him more when you guys make out and stuff like that. Or maybe you can ask him "when do you think its a good time to lose your virginity or have sex with a boyfriend or girlfriend?" and if when he tells you when he's ready you can bring it up again then. If he says "when both people are ready" then maybe you can say "when will you be ready?"
Just a suggestion...good luck. And make sure you really want to do it before you do!
2007-02-10 15:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd recommend speaking to her approximately it. i comprehend she would be able to comprehend, i'm specific she theory relating to the style you will sense earlier she dated her female chum or perhaps previous girlfriends (If any.) basically ask her to diminish her affection once you're out in public. i do no longer see there being away to easily quit being embarrassed, except your mom tones it down. i'd convey it up appropriate permit her comprehend which you're by no potential ashamed of her, and you recognize her yet you will take excitement in if she will tone down her affection point mutually as out to dinner or in public. I recommend If my mom replace into relationship a guy and she or he replace into throughout him kissing and such i'd be somewhat embarrassed too. Your mom will comprehend basically be ahead and straightforward interior the nicest way achieveable. solid good fortune Honey! each and every little thing would be effective :-)
2016-11-03 03:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahahahahaha if you say intercourse yes! im emarrassed for you! just tell him you think you might be ready to take your relationship to the next level or something like that
2007-02-10 15:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There would be no reason to say that, when you are in a position to go for it, just touch him where you want to and it will happen.
2007-02-10 15:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you want it so bad, and you're afraid you'll sound like you're begging for it.
Don't ask, just go for it, and if he seems to follow your plans, then chitty chitty bang bang, don't forget to wear condoms, and make sure you are in l.o.v.e. with him...
2007-02-10 15:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by ~luminary legacy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm my girlfriend did this to me. She just goes, I want to have sex with you so bad right now.. but she says it in like a cute voice and puppy face. she was my first and I was hers
2007-02-10 15:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by Ngoc V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should say anything. every guy has temptation buttons use that to your advantage. show him you want him by putting him in the mood and let it go from there.
2007-02-10 15:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by kaybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋