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i know this guy for 7 months now and i've been so close to him that it's like we r brother and sister.he has a girlfriend and all but each time he and his girl is about to break up he confides in me. i help him with his problem and by the end of the day they did'nt break up. i don't want anyone to suspect my feelings for him cuz i know what will happen. i try to keep my distances lately but its not that easy.i even saw him today and i ignored him. i know that he is wondering why but i just cant bear it any longer.i do have a boyfriend who is really great but he is away and i think not having him aroung causes my feelins for this guy to grow even stronger. the both of them reminds me of each other, and i do know who i love more but not having my boyfriend aroun wants me to run to this other guy. please help me. he is like a big bro to me. he helps me with my problems. please help me. i'm despirate.

2007-02-10 14:36:43 · 6 answers · asked by mikhaila l 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

stay good friends with this guy dont ignore him....maybe over time you will get together.

my sister had a close guy friend, they acted and treated like they were brother and sister. they both had relationships with other people. they were that way for 4 years as best friends, now they are happily married. they were meant for each other
you never know whats going to happen, dont lose that that close friendship

2007-02-10 14:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by motherofone 2 · 0 0

There nothing wrong with like your friend more then a friend, but there is a small problem that can happen you can let him know how you feel and he don't feel the same as you do then he will look at you different you may even lose a friend because he cant deal with you like him and then there the other hand where He will want to be with you to but if that don't work it hard to be friend the a couple and then back friend with all that said follow your heart it wouldn't lead you wrong good luck

2007-02-10 22:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by jen 2 · 0 0

No its not really wrong unless he IS your brother. I get that way about this guy I know sometimes too, but the best thing you can do is keep truggin' along and try to find somebody for yourself. Still be good friends with your guy friend, but just be supportive of him and his girlfriend.

good luck, I hope things work out <3

2007-02-10 22:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by ◘BRITTANY◘ 1 · 0 0

well, the true is that he is not your brother you just get along really good and maybe that’s "y" you are attracted to him. Just because you have a boyfriend, doesn’t mean that he is the one. Life is to explore and take chances you just need to be hones with your self.

2007-02-10 22:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by G 2 · 0 0

You should stay with your boyfriend because that other guy has a girlfriend.

2007-02-10 22:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If thats what you need, tell him you want some friends with benefits with him if he likes the idea.

2007-02-10 22:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 0 0

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