my yougest cousin was adopted when she was four, because her mother just gave up on being a parent, all three off her kids were separeted, what do you think of this
2007-02-10 14:36:13 · 9 answers · asked by Rhiannon. Stay[[+]] 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my cousins brother and sister were split apart, and her mother lost all contact
2007-02-10 14:40:04 · update #1
your cousin is a true honest to goodness cousin for u now but remember in a way her siblings are your cousins to so keep up the contact even with the mother, my bro's and i are sooo close and i could never imagine us seperated, it just wouldn't be fair! So please for the sake of a hasbeen family keep the contact goin strong!!!! :~)
2007-02-10 14:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by all about me!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great your cousin is in a loving home. I hope her brother and sister are also. There should be a way the children could stay in contact. I do not believe they should have been separated but I guess it was the best way to find them a home. A lot of people will not take on three children. It's a tragedy they were separated but the children are, hopefully, in a safe, loving home.
2007-02-10 22:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very sad but this type of thing does not happen easily.
If you can, stay in touch with them. I hope that you are able. Take pictures of yourself and your family and make sure your cousins get them. Maybe make a scrap book for them; perhaps you could give it to them someday.
You are a loving cousin and they are blessed to have you in their life.
Pray for them and pray that you are able to keep in touch.
2007-02-10 22:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by autimom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too bad the siblings couldn't be kept together but I believe they have a better home now. If their mother thought she could take good care of them she probably would have kept them.
2007-02-10 22:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by prarierosebud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people should have to have a licsence to reproduce . I was a foster parent for a long time and saw many kids that were just treated wrong , mostly by thier parents , it sucks .
2007-02-10 22:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by BajaRick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds like the mother wasn't fit to be a parent, and she didn't deserve kids.
I would not have broken up the family, though.
2007-02-10 22:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lauran B. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never give up on trying to find everyone. At least as long as your cosin wants to find them.
2007-02-10 22:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor kids, i dont think they should have separted the sibblings. but then again they needed another home that actually cared for them.
2007-02-10 22:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by motherofone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find her and keep up contact.
2007-02-10 22:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by Loup Garou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋