slept with someone out of desperation/loneliness/ etc and regret it because they were way below your standards?
how do you get rid of that disgusted feeling???
2007-02-10 14:35:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Xroc..i didnt use anyone. he used me. he knew i liked him a lot and was vulnerable and took advantage of it.
now that i look back, he's an idiot and reason why i could have dated someone like him is because i was not thinking right.
2007-02-10 14:42:13 · update #1
cherstin: i THOUGHT i liked him at that time. and he was feeding my the lines i wanted to hear, cause he knew i liked him, i was vulnerable etc etc.
but after the fact, i saw how much of an idiot he was and is. in hindsight i never would have dated someone like him if i wasnt desperate or had the right state of mind.
hindsite is always 2020 right?
2007-02-10 14:53:31 · update #2
Nope, I always have quality lays!!
2007-02-10 14:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How do you know you weren't way below their standards? The person you slept with may also be feeling disgusted. If it was with a man, you should know that when it comes down to sex, men don't always have standards. By the way, all of your questions say that you are crying out for attention. Perhaps you should seek professional help? You post the question then batter the answerer's that say what you don't want to hear.
2007-02-10 17:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by candace b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, that is all that can help...time is your friend, and time is your enemy too...because it takes awhile, but, it will pass and you'll forget about it...just remember the next time when you are lonely or whatever, to stop and think before you let it go too far, because, though they might not be up to your standards, they still have feelings...get involved in something you really enjoy, just keep busy, and it will pass.
2007-02-10 14:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have not quite done that but close. Getting rid of that dusgusted feeling just takes time. It will eventually go away. Learn from your experience to avoid this feeling in the future. Don't worry. You are not alone.
2007-02-10 14:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once, when I was really drunk. Fortunately I was coherent enough to remember to use a condom. He wasn't that disgusting, just someone I never would have done sober. And he turned out to be a gentleman...he kept the night to himself.
2007-02-10 14:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by singleagain062005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a second... you ask in your question about sleeping with someone out of desperation/loneliness/etc but then you post in your details that HE used YOU because you really liked him... so which is it?? You slept with him because you really liked him or you slept with him out of desperation? The two don't really go together...
Hmmm. Interesting...
2007-02-10 14:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by Cherstin and Adam F 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not ever. My dad always told me unless you want to wake up every day for the rest of your life next to a person, then don't sleep with them. Wish all his advice had been that good.
2007-02-10 14:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shower. a lot. 6 times or so. lots and lots of soap. clean ur nether region especialy good. go see a doctor for an STD test. and even after all that........ull still feel it every time u see this girl.
2007-02-10 14:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Food For Thought 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use it as a major learning experience!
2007-02-10 14:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i always sleep w/pplz that are in my standard or higher lol but u shouldnt feel bad if you really like this person but if u dont like them i pity u......fool lol jk
2007-02-10 14:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋