I went to see my bf for a couple of hours he is not allowed to come to my house so after work I went to his house to see him, however I am very sick I have a cold and I was laying in his bed with him watching tv and I was coughing and I just want to go home and sleep so I told him I was leaving and he didn’t really want me to go he was trying to make me stay he was kissing me and he made me tea to make me fell better but all I want to do was go home take a hot shower and sleep. So as I was getting ready to leave someone called him and he was talking to them in front of me saying SURE I WILL COME OUT WERE IS IT AT YEA I WILL GO WITH U. and he said can u hold on and he said aright baby bye and he just shout the door and I left I didn’t want to ask him who it was because I didn’t want him to think I am worrying about him, my Q to u is do u think I should ask him who he was talking to or should I call him and ask him were is or were he was going to. I don’t know what do u guys think?
We been together for about 13 month he usually don’t go out and I don’t think he cheating on me neither .because I am with him 24/7
2007-02-10 14:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry that you think his behavour is acceptable. You must have such low self-esteem that you like to be badly treated. Sorry for you. Maybe someday you'll be able to look in a mirror and be proud of who you see. You're not on track for that and you probably know it. Since he values you so little that he'd rather see you suffer to make him comfortable and when that doesn't happen to jerk you around like he did. He manipulates you. He can probably read you pretty well and knows how you felt when he was on the phone. He's using you. The question is, why would you let him? No don't ask him. Do the same thing to him. 24/7? Oh my. Sounds positively sick to me.
2007-02-10 14:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you need to have a serious talk. You have been going long enough to deserve some honesty and direct answers. ⥠But wait until you feel better to have the chat.
2007-02-10 22:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask casually. Like so what were you up to today? But remember you wanted to go home so it was kind of a blessing in disguise that he got that call.
2007-02-10 22:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he just needs some bonding time with his friends...i know i needed it. but if you really want to u can ask him in a later time you know just casually talk and make the subject move onto what he was doing... be like....i was sick that day and u went out. i wanted you to go buy _______ for me because ___________ but i changed my mind cuz i didnt wanna bother u. what were u doing anyways?
2007-02-10 22:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kung Fu Badger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sick and delusional.
Go home and take a shower go to sleep and talk to him tomorrow.
2007-02-10 22:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ ♥ C.J. ♥ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him it was bugging u that he was on the phone with someone who sounded like a girl and u want to talk about it
2007-02-10 22:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by jdcorvettelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be slick about it and just what he did.cuz if u jus some out wth and ur being suspicious he will become hostile and thats not good
2007-02-10 22:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by viladi340 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋