what do you do if you want to cammit suicide but are too scared to get help. i've tried telling my friend.

Question

i'm not going to ever do it. i just don't see why god put me on this earth a lot of bad thing have happened to me in the past couple months so thats why i'vw thought about it.

Answer 1

Life will always have bad in it, that's what life is all about. I know that to be true. Not to get in a long story, but I grew up with a difficult childhood. It was just me and my brother and when we got older we got close, so close that I thought I could never live without him, He died two years ago and I still cry, I still have anxiety, and I've been going through a terrible depression filled with loneliness and sadness. But, I'm here and that means I serve a purpose. It is up to me to find that purpose. It won't come looking for me, I have to find it myself. And for me that's hard because I feel that I have no talents, no friends, no creativity, and no brains. But as long as I give into allowing myself to believe that I am nobody then I truly will be nobody. But, once I believe I am unique, then my qualities will shine through. The same is true for you as well. Don't let life pass you by, you are special and you do serve a purpose on earth, if you didn't, then you woudn't be here. God loves us and wants us to live for Him. His Son also suffered very badly, but it was for a purpose. The first few days after my brother died, I asked God to allow me to quit breathing, to take me away because I didn't want to be anywhere where he wasn't apart of my life. I hurt so badly, that I'm afraid words could never describe my pain. My only brother, he never had kids, he will never be an Uncle to my kids, his death was so tragic and shocking and he was alone when he died. In the midst of my pain, I know that he would want me to keep living life, to keep moving on, and so on. I also know that God wants me to do the same thing. Everyday is a blessing, give life a chance, I did and I have seen some good in it. I didn't mean to ramble on. If you go to a church, find someone to talk to. I don't know what your religious affiliation is, but some churches have youth pastors that deal with teens and can help.(that's assuming that you are a teen)

Answer 2

Hi,
First, if it's OK, what bad things have happened? Also, to answer your direct question, I believe (from personal experience) that it is necessary to talk to someone. Having a "shoulder to cry on" does amazing wonders! Also, you mentioned God; do what I did and pray to Him for answers! (if you already haven't). This is actually the first step. However, if you feel He answers you and says that you are a "loser" or "worthless", or should commit suicide, be aware that any answer like that is definiely not from God. The Bible makes it clear that you are special, unique, and so valuable to Jesus Christ (God in the flesh), that He literally died on a cross just for you and me. It also says we are "created in His image". The Book of Job in the Bible tells the story of a man who endured unbelievable tragedy, to the point of him wishing he'd never been born, and conludes in the end that God is soveriegn and that we all are special.
I too had the same thoughts as you, years ago. Now, I can't imagine being that way. Primarily it was because I actually sought God and prayed. He completely changed my life. I'm not sure of your particular beliefs, but when I was in my lowest point, I knew there was a God, but didn't really consider Him as being active in my life. That all changed!
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I'll be praying for you...

Answer 3

I'm sorry you have felt like that, I have thought the same thing at one time or another however, I am still here. I don't know what your beleif is, but Jesus can and does answer when you call on His name. God didn't put you on this earth to die before He wants you to. Remember it's always darkest before light,and it's never as bad as you might think at that point. Remember that everything happens for a reason, and maybe the reason you are going through this and going to make to the other side is to help someone else that may go through the same thing. I heard a saying once and like to share it with you ---
it goes like this-- when you go through hell you don't have to stay there----- it means-- push through to the other side don't be afraid to keep going, you know what it's like there, and you don't want to stay. Good luck

Answer 4

you shouldn't base your life on what happened in the past few months. God would not present anything to you that He feels you cannot handle. i have had some bad years but i didn't even consider suicide. i couldn't talk to anyone about what was going on for fear they wouldn't understand or be compassionate. maybe you should try talking to a counselor, a co-workersupervisor (if you work), a teacher, or a family member. but whatever you do don't commit suicide, you may think it will end all of your problems but think about all the people who will miss you lterribly ike your friend. you have a purpose, it may take some time to figure out what it is but trust me you have a purpose in life everyone does.
take care

Answer 5

Bad things happen to everyone. Don't just single yourself out. Your fine the way you are. No matter how skinny or big you are, tall or short, bad luck or good luck. You are the one and only you and no one can change that. Its like on the Good Charlotte Video "Hold On", you might try to hurt your self but in the end you will and everyone else around you will be glad your still there. Hold On because everyone goes through rough times. I really hope this helps you!! If u ever have another problem just ask.

Answer 6

all these BAD things are called LIFE EXPERIENCES! believe it or not we have all had rough times. i grew up with a abusive father, i am smart but every single college told me no when i applied (until recently), i got married and divorced my high school sweetheart. i have been tryin to get pregnant with my second husband with no luck. just because bad things happen consecutively that doesnt mean its the end of the world. god put you here for a reason you just have to figure out what that reason is. why would you be so afraid to get help? there is nothing wrong with having some one help you through a rough time

Answer 7

You have answered your own question by reaching out to others. You have reached out to others via this question/answer forum. God is perfect and therefore makes no mistakes. You are here for a reason. You asking this question could possibly be saving someone else from committing suicide. You have a choice you can choose your attitude every day. You can choose to live or you can choose to die. What do you want to do? What ever you chose, Good Luck!!

Answer 8

Don't commit suicide its not worth it your life can't be as bad as it could be, Talk to the person telling the problem or if that's to painful write them a letter like i did, once when i was 14 my parents where getting a divorce and i wanted to commit suicide too, and I wrote aletter to them and now i am married and living my life with love and a family+ a bonus: friends.

Answer 9

I am the same.. divorced...dumped... no one treats me good....
I feel no reason to be around... I can't enjoy life anymore...
I keep meeting guys who only want sex...and lie that they are separated.... My life has been ****** up since I was born... I think I am cursed or something it's like hey I should have never been born... I wanted to commit suiced a dozen times in my early twenties .... and now...I see no point of living every day... for what? to get hurt all the time? I don't understand... this **** world.... it's ****** up ... I was even raped when I was younger...
SO I do have a few reasons... abused...etc...

Answer 10

If you just want to say Hi, talk about what you're feeling, you can IM me at mygypsyspirit.
Life's got it's challenges, some tougher than others, and when it happens to us, we feel overwhelmed sometimes. It's natural, and we always find a way to put one foot in front of the other, get from one day to the next, and the easiest way is by talking to people about what your dealing with. My heart goes out to you, and if you want to talk, you have my Yahoo Messenger address... Take care!