I have a ex boyfriend who want to be just best friends and still live together, is that ok? Is it also ok if he finds a girlfriend and still wants me to live with him? tell me what u think? if u had experience, tell me about it pls. best answer gets 10 points too....
2007-02-10 13:39:51 · 10 answers · asked by Sammy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is there no such thing as "normal"! Whatever works between two people is good. If you both are comfortable with it then it will be fine. Set good house rules and make sure they are understood. If there are still feelings involved, then it may not work - good luck!
2007-02-10 13:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Kitt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relationship that the both of you had before you got on the boyfriend/girlfriend level. If you were cool before it went to the next level then it might be ok. Some people can maintain a nice friendship bond. Then there are other people who say lets be friends in hopes that you can still have that same line of communication....others want to stay together but just want a little room....I on the otherhand would have to know how the relationship ended....Some people like to play that role so they CAN MOOCH OFF YOU! He be trying to play that role......I wouldn't let him stay if he isn't paying bills. IT COSTS MONEY TO LIVE
2007-02-10 14:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Luchiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. I bought a trailer with my exfiance. He moved out 4 months before our scheduled wedding (which of course got canceled) but we remained friends. We didn't talk for several weeks in there, but I finally broke down and called him. We sort-of dated for a while after that, and he called me one day and wanted to move back to the suburbs. I was struggling financially, so I suggested he move back, and he did. We both dated other people. We eventually turned the relationship into completely platonic friends. He was an usher in my wedding a few years later, and he was at my New Year's Eve party this past new years. (the one that happened about a month and a half ago) We've known eachother over 11 years.
2007-02-10 13:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lower than no activities ought to the children be subjected to sound asleep interior of an similar mattress with a human being that is now no longer their organic and organic father or mom. lower than some circumstances youngsters will sleep with their mom and father for fairly dissimilar causes in which some are justifiable, besides the undeniable fact that now no longer some aspect that are meant to be carried lengthy run. children want their own rooms and it is prohibited for an apartment confusing with a 2 bedroom to employ to a loved ones of three. they want to employ a three bedroom provided that they have got 2 youngsters. there's a very properly reason for that, besides the undeniable fact that i'd no longer bypass that maximum ideal now. Your tale has gray places so i'm unable to speculate an finished lot, besides the undeniable fact that i will claim that this, staying over throughout the time of flight adjustments and then discovered a sparkling boy chum is there...C'mon your blowing wind in route of the wind.
2016-12-04 00:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by schiavone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if it is normal?
Depends on what you feel, if you are comfortable with the idea. Right now it might be, imagine if he does find a girlfriend and you a boyfriend how you'd feel then?
Only if you can truly tell yourself, it wouldn't bother you, try. Otherwise, one of you needs to move out.
2007-02-10 14:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tried it before. Too many feelings, emotions for it to work.
Break-ups mean you have to move on. Have some distance.
You don't need to hate your ex - it was just something that didn't work. But being too close is a ticket to disaster.
2007-02-10 13:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by cheyenneman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't use the term normal,but as long as you both are mature enough to handle the situation of living together and seeing eachother w/ other people it could work.I don't think I could deal w/ something like that!
2007-02-10 13:44:57 · answer #7 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gosh! MY PREDICAMENT! LMAO! See, I'm finding its working ok, because we have to work together anyways....so this is just convent.
2007-02-10 13:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that experience and it was wierd because he will get jealous about guys i will talk to.....if u feel comfortable then go for it but if he gets jealous be careful.
2007-02-10 13:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no havent had that experience. and I wouldnt want that experience. peace
2007-02-10 13:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋