that wasnt very attractive in your eyes came up to you and asked you out on a date. What would you say yes?, would you lie and say oyu ahve a boyfriend even if you didnt so you wouldnt seem shallow, or would you ignore him, or would you say yes and see where it goes from there?
2007-02-10 13:21:52 · 18 answers · asked by CJL18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They'd go if you had $100 bills sticking out of all your pockets, wore a bag over your head and took them to the mall.
2007-02-10 13:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's kind of a funny question, because when I first met my husband, I wasn't attracted to him at all. I had always went for the good looking bad boys...... always ended badly. My friends kept telling me to give him a chance, he sort of followed me around for like 4 months so I finally gave in and went out with him.... that was 8 1/2 years ago, we've been married 7 years this month.
2007-02-10 21:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Squirrley Temple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only say that if I wouldn't know the guy at all. I would not date a stranger...don't we all go out on dates if we are somehow attracted to the person??? Remember, it is NOT about attractive, it is about being attracted to the guy! At least in my eyes...Yes, we might all jump on the chance if there is this (in our eyes) hot guy; however, if you know someone and like 'em, if you want to talk with that person and so on, then you are attracted to them, right??? So if there is a girl you want to ask out, just make sure she knows a little bit about you, positive stuff, of course, make yourself noticeable in little ways, and then ask her!
2007-02-10 21:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me old fashioned but if a random guy came up to me I'd turn him down, on grounds of me not knowing him and he may have alterior motives. Strike conversation and let the girl show interest before you make such a move. Women who turn guys down because of physical attraction, in my opinion, are shallow and you wouldn't want someone like that anyway.
2007-02-10 21:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I didn't want to go out with a guy (for whatever reason), I would simply say, very nicely, "Thank you for asking, but no." You don't owe him an explanation, and certainly you know better than to lie about having a boyfriend!
2007-02-10 21:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can give you advice from my point of view as well anybody else here. but, we all have different things to say. just liket the girl in question, you don't know what she thinks, so just ask her. take a chance, don't end up on the loser end wondering what she would have said, when she could very easily say yes. here's some good advice though, do something so silly when u ask her, just do something funny, get her to laugh, make her laugh-that's the key to having a chance with a girl, if you can make her laugh, can you? good luck
2007-02-10 21:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't creep me out. I would just simply decline. I wouldn't want to lead him on....that would be cruel. On top of that I have a boyfriend who wouldn't really be happy with me If I went out on a date with someone who is looking for more than a friend.
2007-02-10 21:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by blufiah_tam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how unattractive u think u are......cause i dont go for the most attractive guys.....cause all the preppy b*tchy boys are well preppy and b*tchy!!!! i go for the ones that arent attracive to most girls cause they dont have an attitude and are usually very sweet!!!
so to answer ur question yes i would say yes!!!!
2007-02-10 21:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by (((uniquely.me))) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't say anything. first ask yourself if you actually like him or is it because all of your friends think you guys look cute together, or that because he is a jock and would make you totally popular! after you've clearly thought that through and you really like him, go ahead and say yes!
2007-02-10 21:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the guy... if the guy is nice and funny and doesnt get into trouble.. than id say yes.. thats how my boyfriend is right now and i dont really care
2007-02-10 21:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by mascot336 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋