I wish I was kidding, but I'm not. Women hate me for being a healthy, intelligent, confident man, and dismiss me as "boring" and "too nice", and I'm tired of that. So, I need to start mistreating women so that they'll see me as a challenge, and will think I'm exciting.
Please offer some good advice on how to go about this.
2007-02-10 13:20:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Don't let those women change you into something you are not. Keep being a good man and one day when you meet the RIGHT woman she will appreciate that. You don't want to ruin yourself because of those women because when you meet the woman that you are meant to be with there won't be nothing good left.
2007-02-10 13:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by MISS 84 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If the only women you know are women who want to be mistreated, you are obviously hanging with a bunch of really dysfunctional women!! Raise your standards, for crying out loud! Most women I know want a man who treats them like a queen. Boring has nothing to do with being a jerk. Read the paper and get up on current events. Volunteer for something. Get involved in the world. Learn something. Travel. Then you'll be interesting because you'll have a lot to talk about and you'll find you don't even bore yourself.
2007-02-10 15:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For heavens sake, don't do that. You will only be acting out of frustration, and you will not appear sexy or challenging, but merely foolish--probably not your goal here.
In my experience, problems with dating are usually created by one of two things. The most likely issue is something I call a "broken picker". You get to pick who you ask out, and you are apparently picking ones who find you boring. Why? Are these your local versions of Paris Hilton? If so . . . stop dating that type of woman.
The second possibility, of course, is that you actually ARE boring, too nice, etc. I doubt it though!
2007-02-10 13:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont change who you are... those women that are attracted to bad boys.... are the same ones filing for divorce when they get their azzes beat the next year! You can be exciting without mistreating people. Just Stand up for yourself and dont let them walk all over you- thats how you'll get Real respect!
2007-02-10 13:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No no no don't do it. It's not that you don't mistreat woman, it could be that you are too nice and for the wrong reasons like for instance you want acceptance really badly from these woman and it shows. some women need a bit of fire and self- possessiveness but not disrespect and abuse . I guess some like abuse but then they have a problem don't they?
2007-02-10 13:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by elflocks 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Here's just a smattering of good options:
the fish eye, the dirty sanchez, the arabian eye goggles, blumpkin, cleveland steamer, glass bottom boat, the chili dog, bucking bronco, swimmers ear, the dutch oven, arabian homerun, the angry dragon, the danza slap, donkey punch, golden showers, pearl necklace, rusty trombone, the shocker....and so on and so forth
hope this has been helpful :)
2007-02-10 13:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by SanDiego22m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kyle Minogue and Mischa Barton just dumped their bad boy boyfriends. Women go though bad boys, they like the danger but can't stand their crap. On the other hand, those female type are flakey and you probably won't stand for their crap.
2007-02-10 13:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by gregory_dittman 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Mike: I think you already know the answer to this question, but I'm just going to make it obvious. You need to play the field, and stop all the romance of making one woman the center of your attention. However, just don't bite off more than you can chew if you know what I mean.
2007-02-10 13:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by uao621 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you've been told you are boring, then work on becoming more interesting...that doesn't mean behave like an azz *rolls eyes*
You've got a LOT to learn about women apparently...doormats aren't appealing or appreciated (you'll either set yourself up to be dumped or used) but that doesn't mean you need switch to the other extreme...the women you'd attract then, wouldn't be worth having...
2007-02-10 13:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stand up for your opinions in a discussion. Don't just always agree with her. It's very attractive when a man can stand his ground. Firmly but nicely.
2007-02-10 13:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by Nina 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋