We've never met, but exchanged pictures and alot of emails. It seems like a perfect match, but as of now he lives far away, but I will be relocating to the same area he is at soon. Is it worth pursuing? Or does it seem perfect because we have such a limited knowledge of each other? It seems so comfortable talking to him, plus the fact that the usual getting to know someone akwardness (like uncomfortable silences and worrying so much about how you look, etc.) is not there. It almost seems too perfect. I'd like to know if anyone has any experiences or advice to share. I know he's not married, and he says he's very eager to meet me and continue the relationship. I'm trying not to get too excited, but every time I talk to him I feel stronger and stronger. Serious answers only please.
2007-02-10 13:19:19 · 13 answers · asked by kitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion, you can not truly love someone until you have met face to face and spent time together. Who knows if he's actually the way he presents himself to be via email? It is easy to be always in a good mood, funny, and witty when you have time to sit down and think out every word you are going to say. You need to get to know him in real life beofre you can use the "love" word. Until then, you're good cyber friends.
2007-02-10 13:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Elaine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personal i'm facing such situation now as a man, sometimes i fell its fantasy or something of that nature. But one point should be made clear, for us.
Don't give the person all your heart now,
But be real and truthfull with yourself and try to be a good friend with the person in anyway you can,
if you can,i know you can make it, don't have body contact yet,
try to have a backup relationship as a standby incase any thing stupid may happen.
I STRONGLY I KNOW THAT MANY PEOPLE MAY BE ENJOYING A RELATIONSHIP THAT STARTS LIKE THIS, i believe we are not totally in a wrong track,
i wish you and me the best.
2007-02-10 13:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with meeting someone online. it just so happens that you are getting to really know eachother alot deeper. because you write to eachother, sometimes we communicate alot clearer through written words u know. another thing he is excited about meeting u in person, which would tell me that he too is having the same feelings towards you. don't worry about things that haven't happend yet, let yourself dare to go on this journey, you never know where you'll find that love alot of us can only dream of. take a chance, and give a chance.
2007-02-10 13:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the perfect relationship cuz you have no attachment aside from you computer. have you talked on the phone with him or is it a strictly internet relationship? you have no physical relationship with him therefore it is easy to think its perfect. i would strongly urge you to not relocate just because of this guy but if your doing it cuz of job or school then go for it, but take the relationship slowly. dont move in with him or anything like that. date for a while and see what happens. good luck to you.
2007-02-10 13:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay that akwardness that isnt there isnt there because you have never met the guy. If you think its something serious because you feel comfortable around him, thne it shouldnt be somethin you persue. Get to know him better, maybe get a web cam, tak on the phone, ect...
2007-02-10 13:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how you meet someone you start out with limited knowledge. Lots of people meet on line and form successful relationships. Be safe and smart about it and trust your feelings.
2007-02-10 13:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know unless you go for it. You won't know if it'll work out but it seems you already know you love him. It looks like he interest in you as well so who knows!
2007-02-10 13:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its very possible and when you meet you will know for sure if its gonna work or not .So just follow your instincts if he seems interested and your interested it might work out great..
2007-02-10 13:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by BabyGurl2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY I THONK YOU'RE CRAZY! but yeah itz possible. what kinda drug are you on andwhere can i get some?
2007-02-10 13:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by Orange Lipbalm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were in our shoes what would you think of it?
2007-02-10 13:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋