i need to stop my friends from ruining my relationships there's this guy i really like and want to be with and my freinds are running him off how can i stop this? i'm at the age where i'm ready to settle down and be in a relationship which my friends already have and they still act like this knowing very well they wouldn't want me to do that to them.......my guy he said he cant handle how they are in our business he thinks that i tell them our business when i don't ...they assume stuff and cuss him out, and jump in our business for no reason. it's really childish and he thinks that it will rub off on me i've had so many guys turn me down because of my friends i can't take it anymore.. what should i do? this guy is planning to leave out if town in a few months i don't want to lose him.....they have been in our business so much to where he really wants to leave sooner i'm soo frustrated because i feel he's the one for me .....no rude comments
2007-02-10 13:19:13 · 5 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
telll your inquisitive friends plain and straight to get out of your business and stop interfering. you will loose this guy that you really love so much again all because of your friends>>>> and because you did not do something about them>>>> i'm talking from experience. run your friends.
2007-02-10 13:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by mikhaila l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe tell your friends straight out. stop being nice to them and tell them what they're doing and that you REALLY dont enjoy it.. u gotta do something if u wanna secure this relationship with your man =)
also, keep telling him that you're not telling ur friends about the two of u and tell him its up to him to trust you or not.. and be sincere with him and tell him what u want and why and that your friends shouldnt get in the way of it because love is so much stronger than that.
good luck =]
2007-02-10 21:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still friends with these people?? You need to decide whether you want a guy or your current friends, because it sounds like these "friends" won't let you have both. Good luck.
2007-02-10 21:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I would call them friends at all . Friends want the best for each other
2007-02-10 21:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by BajaRick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your men away from those friends. They are no help to you.
2007-02-10 21:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋