This guy that I've been talking to(we're dating) is 19 and a virgin. He wants me to be his first. He says that he loves me and I think I love him too! But I don't know how I should feel that he wants me to do this for him. Should I even sleep with him? *confused* I need some advice.
2007-02-10 13:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, someone has to be his first, LOL! Don't talk about it so much, makes it waaay intellectual and not physical or romantic. Let nature take its course, if ur his first then ROCK ON now u can teach him =)
2007-02-10 13:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by prtty_patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I decided on my first time, the biggest factor was if I would mind having them in my life for the rest of my life. Because if you get pregnant and have the baby, then it's father will most likely be around forever in one way or another. There were some other factors too like "am I ready for a baby?" I probably never will fully be ready for a kid, but do I have a backup plan? I know thinking about this kills the mood, but I believe in being ready for the consequences of such an act. You have to set your own factors before you can decide if you're ready.
2007-02-10 13:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by MR. Tumnus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have three minutes to waste and never get back, do him. I don't believe he is telling you all this, maybe he thinks he's turning you on with that crap.
2007-02-10 13:21:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old are u? cause if ur not yet 18 then that is f*ckin statutory rape and he could get charged for that........however if ur 18 and u love the guy then go for it!!!!
2007-02-10 13:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by (((uniquely.me))) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it feels right do it, it doesnt feel right then dont. either way dont force it if the natural flow of things lead u to that, then enjoy
2007-02-10 13:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by bobo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be corney but....when i was in bible study, if i had to ask....well....
so lesson learned. if you have to ask if it is right, there is your answer. hope u understand what i am trying to say.
2007-02-10 13:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your certain that you love him.... go for it.
2007-02-10 13:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by Hmmmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry him
2007-02-10 13:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋