How many does it take to be a whore?

Question

How many guys does a girl have to sleep with to be offically call a whore?

Answer 1

It's really hard to defined the worlds $lut and whore. I've heard of girls being called sluts even though they have never had sex before. I've also heard of girls being called whores because they have been with a few guys. I guess people use those words loosely and give it whatever mean they feel is correct for that situation.

The fact is that a $lut is a girl who sleeps around a lot or cheats. The problem is that the number of men that a girl needs to sleep with before she's consider a $lut, varies a lot from person to person.

A whore is a prostitute. In other words, someone who sleeps around for money, drugs or other goods.

In the old days, a girl who had been with more than one guy was consider a $lut. Later that changed to about three. Now days, according to surveys the average is about 8 guys. But researchers are questioning that number. It's estimated that the real average in the US is more like 16 in a lifetime. With some women having numbers in the low 20's not been too uncommon.

I know that a lot of people may not believe those numbers, but from the evidence that I've seen by counseling females, it's not hard to see that those figures are more realistic. I've counseled a large amount of females in their teens to early 20's, who have been with 7 or more guys already. And I think that as women gain more power in society in the next couple of decades and as the old gender roles are broken more and more, those numbers are going to keep on climbing. A good example of that is that women are cheating on their partners almost has much as men. Some experts estimate that at this rate, women will catch up to men in about a decade and pass men within two to three decades.

I've always believed that women have the same right as guys to enjoy themselves. Why can a guy can and a girl can't? If a girl that sleeps around is considered a $lut, then so should guys. That double standard has to do with machismo and insecurity.

Men want to be able to go out there and have all the fun they want, but their women is supposed to be innocent and clean. It also have a lot to do with the fact that men are very insecure about their own sexual performance. We worry about everything, including our penis size.

Having a girl that is sexually inexperienced and who hasn't had a lot of partners, allows us to feel secured. The reason being that the more partners a girl has had, the more guys that she has to compare us to. Men hate to be compared with other men.

I truly believe that the name calling such as sluts and whores was started by men to suppress women’s sexual needs and to protect their own fragile ego. Which also served to keep women’s power in check. Men have always been physically stronger than females and were generally better educated. But women have always have something that have brought even the strongest men down to his knees. Something has have even taken kingdoms and countries to go to war…that is the one thing that women have between their legs. Which is the essence of her femininity and what drives men to do stupid acts even today.

The only way of suppressing that power, was by suppressing women’s sexual needs. A women who’s smart, educated and who knows how to use her feminine wonders, is a force to be reckon with. Please, don’t think for a second that I’m insinuating that women need to sleep around in order to gain power or move up the corporate ladder.

It’s amazing how much women have progressed in the last 100 years, but even with their new gained power and place in society, most still like to play the game that men designed for them, and women are quicker at criticizing other women faster than men. Isn’t it amazing how well men have programmed women over the years? I think so!

The way I see it, is that I don't are what she has done in the past, whether she has been with 2, 15, 50, 100 or more guys or who she has been with in the past (as long as she's healthy and disease free), what I care is what she does while she's with me and how she treats me. Oh and trust me, I have practiced what I preach.

Answer 2

It's not nessicarily the amount of guys a girl has to sleep with to be called a whore. It's her behavior towards memebers of the opposite sex in general. Girls who put out easily and have no boundries are whores. Just because a girl has slept with numerous guys doesn't mean she is one.

Answer 3

If you have to ask you might be in trouble... Your not a whore if your only with one guy at a time... but it also depends on how many guys youve been with within a certain amount of time...

Answer 4

I don't think there is an exact number, i don't believe in judging others either, you do what you will with your life. If you don't believe you are a whore and you have slept with 100 men, then you aren't, its all about how you feel about yourself, if others think you are a whore then that's their opinion and they are entitled. weather you have slept with 1 or a 100 men people will think what they think. If you are proud of your actions, then be proud, if not, don't flaunt them around. No one is a saint.Just be safe and smart about it.

Answer 5

That is a very hard question, but if you feel dirty and used after sex you are a whore. Not because that never happens, it is because you will be with someone you dont want to be with.

Answer 6

More than one man per night... or more than 3 men per week. This is only an opinion. I don't think anyone has written an "Official Whore Rule Book" yet.

Answer 7

I don't think there is a specific number. A girl becomes a whore when she sleeps with someone she dosn't care about.

Answer 8

if she`s just having sex without love..then she`s always been a whore. Numbers don`t count..actions do!

Answer 9

two or more at one time. or 10 guys in your life.

Answer 10

one before marriage. OR
another man while you're married