HELP!!! BOY TROUBLE!!! serious answers only?

Question

Ok i narrowed down my list of guys i like please choose one and say why
Kiko- he's really nice cool and very fun to hangout with he makes me happy when i'm sad BUT!!!! he's very friendly to other girls and he's my bestfriends ex

Nick-He's my best buddy we do everything together. he lives next door and i talk to him every day almost BUT!! i think we too much friends and i heard he likes some girls from another school(if you choose nick tell me how to ask him out or get him to ask me)

Scott-he's funny, sweet,nice.I like him alot and i don't kno why! i just do you kno! BUT!!! he's my ex boyfriend of 2 relationships, has a gf and is really mean to my bestfriend

p.s tell me how to get them to notice me

p.s scott dosent have a gf anymore

Answer 1

I picked the first one because his "reasons not to" seemed of less consequence.

But really, you should just follow your heart, pardon the cliche.

Answer 2

ok, firstly, i dont think kiko is the answer because one, he was ur best friends ex (! - not a good idea) ,and secondly, hes friendly with other girls, which means he is not really into u (sorri- ive learnt that from personal experience). Nick sounds like the best for u. Remember rumours are rumours, not fact, so dont believe'it, because u seriously dont know how he is truly feeling. Scott has a gf, not a good idea to mess around with someone elses relationship and he doesnt like ur best friend, which will cause problems because u might have to in situations chose between him and ur best friend, and if u broke up again, it would ruin ur relationship with ur best friend.

The only problem thou with Nick is that he is a really close friend of urs, and the relationship could become messy and u might end up losing him as a friend, and in the end, having him as a friend is more important than not having him at all. i really like my good friend (whos a guy) but im scared to tell him how i feel incase our friendship goes, and then i would have regreted ever mentioning it in the first place. u need to say to him "im starting to develop feelings for u" and see how he reacts. let him decide wat happens in the relationship because then it will be HIM that will regret not being with u since he was the one that said no to dveloping a closer relationship.

good luck

xoxo

Answer 3

Definitely Nick. My current boyfriend, of two years, and I were best friends in high school. All the while when we'd hang out or talk I secretly wished he would lean over and kiss me, or ask me out, but he never did. I'd seen him date numerous girls, suffer from broken hearts, deal with family issues, etc. I think the most important factor that affects us being a great couple now(we didn't start dating until after collage) is that we were always there for each other. Be there for Nick, If it's meant to happen things will work out. Trust me. Good luck.

Answer 4

So, why do you need to have a boyfriend? If this is your list of prospects, keep looking. Kiko is nice to you and nice to everyone - great - but what does that mean? where does nice stop? And isn't your best friend worth anything to you?

Seriously, you aren't even interested in Nick in "that" way - you just added him to the list to add him. He's your best buddy and leave it at that.

Scott - he's an ex? AND has a girlfriend right now? AND is mean to your best friend? Do you really even have to think about this one?

Keep looking.. learn to like to be on your own!

Answer 5

i would choose none of them .... they all have BUT!'s i think that you shouldn't do anything with Nick - because a good friend is needed, and it would be a great loss of friend especially if he likes some other girl..... it all depends on how he feels towards you..... Scott - he is your ex of two relationships..... why try anther relationship with him? if you broke up twice then there must have been a sufficient reason, therefore forget about scott....... That's leaves the list to Kiko, and it's okay to be freindly to other girls, it would haven been worse if he was not friendly to other people.... just talk to him, invite him to hang out and then he will notice you

Answer 6

Well as im a guy ive did the same thing hes doing, i really liked a girl in school but only ever said anything to her on myspace. What im saying is like find alternative ways to class and see if he takes on of those ways, and if so just give a little tiny wave, a little wave or hi never hurts and thats were it all begins. After passed that then start talking to him on the computer and show him your actually shy too by saying like "Well i finally say hi to you lol" for instance. No need to start big, start little.

Answer 7

go for nick...maybe he says he likes girls from other schools just to see what you would say...if he doesnt have a gf ask him to hang out. like in 13 going on 30 the "best guy friend" are usually the ones you end up falling for! or casually ask him what he would think if u two dated...and see what he says. and getting them to notice you~ just be yourself! your dealing with 3 very different guys. if you "act like someone ur not" u might pick the wrong guy in the end! good luck!

Answer 8

I think you should choose Nick. You guys are really good friends, and I heard that the best of friends make better relationships, because they're not afraid of "loosing each other forever" if they breakup.
My boyfriend used to be a really good friend of mine. I was too cowardly to tell him how I felt so I got my friend to do it for me, and now we love each other. And we promised that if we ever broke up, we would not be mean to each other (spreding secrets and whatnot), we wouldn't go emo (and be all like 'i can't live without you!') and continue to be friends forever. Without those fears, i'm not afriad of breaking up with him (althought i hope he doesn't happen).
I would choose Nick, but, of course, I don't know you, and I don't know him, so don't listen to every single little word I say.
me hopes me helped 8D

Answer 9

aight look. scott is not the one for you. hes an ******. and u got out of two relationships so keep it at that. nick is ur best friend and i like my best friend too. so the best thing to do is. go with kiko. who cares if its ur best friends x. theyre not going out anymore so if ur best friend ditches u for a boyfriend shes obviously not ur best friend.and if u wunt to go with nick be sure u wunt a long relationship cause if u dont that whole best buddy crap is dead. keep it long and strong. now to get them to notice u is half and half. ur appearnce has to be sexy as hell but not sleasy. then start flirting with them. guys love it when girls flirt with them. i would know. but dont flirt too much. youll frek them out. then just keep flirting and flirting. and if he asks u to go out say u cant and hold off 1nce or twice. then finally say yes. if he starts flirting with u then ur in business. all u have to do is flirt bak until he pops the kwestion. good luck

Answer 10

Not Kiko becuz hes ur bff's ex. probably nick because (i also am going out with a nick!!! LOL) you know him really well, and your comfortable. screw the girls from another school... just be yourself and look your best. dont be afraid to ask him out. Yeah, i know, you might get rejected, but you'll get over it. you'll never know unless you try. also, just ask him when you guys are hanging out...
hope this helps!!!

Answer 11

OK I would go with Kiko as long as it is OK with you B.F.

You don't always want to pick you Best guy friend to dare because if you break up sometimes it is weird and the friendship is different.

Last guy has a girlfriend already and you don't want to do that, what goes around comes around.