Ok my boyfriend of three and a half years had phone sex with some random female about six months ago. We had just had a huge fight and broke up and that same night he did it. Do you think I should trust him cuz ive been having alot of trouble in trusting him after that, there hasnt been anything else on the phone bill since then but I still feel like I cant trust him. He also sent nasty video clips with the cell phone. Should I throw away our relationship over something like that?
2007-02-10 13:03:34 · 10 answers · asked by silly_moomoo_cow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me tell you something that a lot of women don't seem to realize....if a man loves you wholeheartedly, then he would not participate in sexual relations with another girl.....regardless if it's phone sex or actual sex. Sex comes in many different forms and yes it can be considered as unfaithfulness. He is sharing his sexual side with her when it should only be reserved for you. I know it's hard to let someone that you've been dating for 3.5 years go, but you deserve better than that. It's not minor....I honestly feel that us women let men walk over us and don't put our foot down...it's wrong and you need to let him know that he made a horrible mistake by saying goodbye....hope all works out!
2007-02-10 17:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to look at his phone bill it appears you can't really trust him... And that definitely counts as cheating.
2015-11-10 00:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by ams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest not to trust him
he's probably cheating on you if you ask me
2015-10-03 09:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by Leyla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will keep doing it. don't trust him. don't go back to him. it's better to break now than later. or it will just get harder with the time. beleive me. i know what i'm saying
2007-02-10 13:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by a b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um....yeah....he sounds shady. What makes you think he won't go and do something even worse if you take him back?
2007-02-10 13:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like cheating. i think u should ask him why he did that...and may be u should give him a chance....
2007-02-10 13:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by answerer101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key word is phone. there was no sex.
2007-02-10 13:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if hes willing to do that, then soon hell be willing to do the real thing
2007-02-10 13:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmmm....... i would maybe give him one more chance but if he doesn ANYTHING like that again i would can him.
2007-02-10 13:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by Btieti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't trust him
2007-02-10 13:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by The Voice of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋