here's the story.i finally get to date this guy i really liked.it was great.we dated for 2 1/2 to 3 months.but then on christmas he dumped me...via email none-the-less.i dont usually have very long relationships(i dont trust people that easily), but i did all i could and put my heart in that relationship and he hurt me.is something wrong with me to make him do that?
2007-02-10 13:00:38 · 9 answers · asked by HarleyQuinn2011 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to add on to that,he told like 5 other people 5 different reasons.my friend said the girl he is dating now is hideous.but i think that was the first commited relationship i have been in, and he hurt me.he told my cousin that he loved me, and then dumped me on christmas.i feel like i should just give up on love and dating because all it does is get me hurt.ya know?
2007-02-10 13:11:52 · update #1
Some guys are just pure jerks. Like the one who posted "i'll tell you whats phisically wrong."
It happens to everyone.
Don't blame yourself for anything, blame him. It's part of there game, they want us to feel bad.
2007-02-10 13:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by xorenée 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you... I don't know why he dumped you but no blame yourself for it. Relationships do take a lot of effort but soon you will forget about him and meet someone new.
Maybe you should thank him for doing what he did because now you can find someone you won't do that to you and someone who is WAY better than he is!
2007-02-10 21:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with you, he most likely just had something come up that caused him to rethink everything he knows. I got dumped like 2 days after my gf told me she loved me... s*** happens don't let it bring you down. but the trust is important in a relationship, so let yourself in more... trust is VERY important
2007-02-10 21:07:59 · answer #3 · answered by Eric B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, thiers nothing wrong with you, your human it hurts, worse if it was an email. you know what that means? he has no balls, think the worst then all that sadness will turn into anger and go confront him, if you want. if not move on and make him see what he missed, maybe even get a date. yeah you go girl. you can do it.
2007-02-10 21:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by marilyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it sounds like ur fine, but there wasnt that much detail to ur story. sounds like it was him
example: this guy i like likes me, but i know once we go out 4 a while he will dump me like he has every other girl this year so i keep refusing. besides hes going out w. someone at the moment. he would dump me just so he could say, "i went out w/ her" maybe thats ur guys problem.
((good luck w/ this))
2007-02-10 21:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by aitlin_cay10@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men don't just break up with a woman for no reason. usually the reason is another woman.
2007-02-10 21:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys will be boys, especially if they're in middle/high school. They just don't know what they want yet.
2007-02-10 21:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did nothing wrong... boys can be jerks and change their minds easily.... theres someone for everyone!!!
2007-02-10 21:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by mascot336 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
post a picture i will tell you what physically wrong.
2007-02-10 21:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋