Should I still stick around for this guy?

Question

So me and this guy like each other alot, but never really talked. I know that sounds stupid, but we've kind of just admired each other from afar. We've spoken a few times, and he's smiled at me alot, but we've never became really good friends. We just liked each other alot. It's been a few months but the oppurtunity hasn't really came around yet and we have a somewhat different circle of friends. 2 days ago I was sitting in a classroom with a group of friends, one which happened to be his best friend, and he walked in and didnt even come back there to say hey. He just sat at his desk and stared at the wall until class started. The other thing is, he has a g/f. It kind of happened fast becuase she went after him and she's the girl that all the guys want, but she's mean. I know that doesnt say much about him dating her, its just i really like him, and i think he still feels the same, im just waiting for my chance to finally formally become friends. should I still stick around for him?

Answer 1

Well, if you think obsessing and waiting around for a guy that goes out with women simply because they're pretty and popular, regardless of their personalities, then knock yourself out. What does that say about you?

Answer 2

No - if he were truly interested, he'd head to whatever part of the room you are in regardless of who's around and when! And the fact he has a girlfriend automatically should put him on your not available list - because if he is any sort of stand up kind of guy, he IS unavailable when he has girlfriend! When two people are really attracted to each other, they MAKE the opportunities appear - they don't just stand around and wait. Trust me, when you find someone you are REALLY attracted to, and vice versa, it'll be so great, you won't believe you thought about this other guy for as long as you did... good luck!

Answer 3

You shouldn't stick around for any guy. Life is too short. There's an endless supply of men running around. If this guy liked you and didn't talk to you then his loss! if he ran off with some other girl because she made it easy for him then toss him. By the time he comes to his senses and realises she's mean you'll be living it up with a guy that had enough nerve to talk to you, or you'll be having a great time being single and enjoying the company of your friends.
I certainly don't reccomend trying to weasel your way between him and his new fling, I promise a year from now and probably a crush or 2 later you'll have forgotten the guy exists.

Answer 4

Yes, if his g/f is mean he will soon find that out and drop her. If not then maybe you should move on. The day he ignored you may have been a bad day for him and I would not think too much of his behaviour that day. If you really think he feels the same about you then by all means hang around. If you can meet him when his g/f is not around I would try to let him know you are unattached, that way he can make up his mind about whether he still dates his current or whether he would rather you.

Answer 5

I believe that if this guy really wants to become your friend then he will approach you. The man is the hunter and the female is the prey. Don't switch the roles in this game of life. I can tell that you want more than friendship because of the first few sentences. You cant become friends with anyone you are attracted to. that is apart of life, sorry. And, when you were in class, he didn't speak to you so what does that say. I don't know what that was about, only he knows. I don't know, it is all up to you.

Answer 6

You want to abandon your boyfriend when he is dealing with the loss of the person who brought him into this world? Excuse me, but that is very low. Sure he seems distant, and he has every right to act that way. He is shaken and confused and might even be questioning the value of living. How can you expect him to concentrate on you? It is very hard to think rationally when you lose someone you held dear and you are dealing with that kind mental turmoil. It's a major crisis. You need to take hold of the situation and guide him towards stability. Convince him that things will be okay. Make him happy to be with you. If you stay with him and help him your relationship will be stronger than ever.

Answer 7

you See ... Im' just like you accept for the last part is a bit diffrent. he just comes to shool two classes, the rest is home schooled. So... wait for him becauses it may not work out for them and it will be back to norml. in the mean time, mabey "like" someone else just to get back or give him the coldsholder. IF you really liked him...wait for him, he will come back.cearel

Answer 8

"keep your friends close keep your enemies closer."

just start talking to him and asking questions, like well hey how are you? then just ask about his girlfriend and tell him that you arent interested (you dont want to seem too desperate) but that you just want to be friends. tell him since you see him all the time what is the point of avoiding conversation, its just blah blah blah talk. hes in your class and there will be a point when you need to partner up with, why not partner up with the smart girl who is your friend.

Answer 9

What are you sticking around for? He has a girlfriend! Get on with your life. Maybe you two will get together later in life.

Answer 10

shouldn't have taken so long,now you missed out, hes taken, stay away,unless he breaks up with her,its OK to be his friend, but don't over step-your bounds, next time don't be so shy or worried about what other people might say, if you want something get out there and get it, quit waiting around!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!