If you are shy, asian, on you're school's math team , have virtualy no friends, only play one sport(which you are not good at),
and have no confidence or self esteem, is it at all possible to get a
girl?
2007-02-10 12:19:23 · 15 answers · asked by question? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love dorks and im asian
theyre usually smart money makers of the future
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-02-10 12:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by loveithateit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of all the things you mentioned, having no self-esteem will slow you down the worst. The others are just details. Man, ya gotta get out and have some fun! I don't want you do become a drunk, but have a beer or two! But it's like a devil bull ride you can't stop sometimes, unless you have good will power to stop at only a few.
2007-02-10 20:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, everybody could get a girl or guy or whatever. The catch is it may not be the one you are aiming for. Well, there are a few exceptions to the rule. You should be able to but you will have to put some effort into it. I suggest buying books on the subject which are plentyfull. You will need to work on your shyness. Good luck.
P.S. this come from a person who used to be very very shy. It worked for me.
2007-02-10 20:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...probably not. So get better at that sport, build up your self-esteem and confidence, become more lively and get rid of your shyness, and try and get your self some friends. Maybe then you can attract some girls...
2007-02-10 20:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has to have self-esteem to get a girlfriend or a boyfriend. Noone wants to date a person who hates them selves.
Work on getting self esteem and you will get someone.
2007-02-10 20:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Everyone has a match. It's just some poeple find their match soon and some dont find their match until late in their lives. Dont believe anybody who says theres no girl for you there IS AND ITS SOMEWHERE BUT YOU HAVE TO FIND HER. or she could find. it doesnt matter if u r a geek or a jock there will be a girl interested for who u r
2007-02-10 20:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by pizzamanpspfreak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible. If you have a good attitude, are smart, and nice, you won't have a problem. Sure, you may not get a cheerleader or model (it's possible) but you can get a girl if you want. I chose not to get a girl because I am unromantic, and unemotional, but if you want to go for it, go for it.
2007-02-10 20:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if you just treat a girl right, and make her seem like the world to you...but make sure not to smother her. don't call every day, but every other day is ok. most girls are all about being treated like they're number one to their guy, so even if you care about math or sports or games more, don't let her know that.
2007-02-10 20:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Promise... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! maybe there is a girl out there that likes you, like people like you, and then some day soon you both will find each other and fall in love. hope i helped a bit!
2007-02-10 20:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by x♥Anne♥x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i mean yeah u just cant try so hard when u c her u will no besides try not 2 b so shy and open up u will get noticed
2007-02-10 20:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋