okay...well there is this guy i like and he tells my brother that he likes me too and if he could he would be with me.....but he has a girlfriend : [ but he always flirts with me and i flirt back.....but his girlfriend is one of my BFF'S.....but she doesnt have a clue......but i really like him.....but they have been together for a while now.....but i mean i REALLY like him....and he just makes me so happy and i can be myself when i am around him.... what do i do??? PLEASE HELP!!!
will she be mad like REALLY mad if i go out with him if they do brake up??? please help!!!
thanks
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2007-02-10 12:08:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't really like you if he won't break up with his girlfriend for you. Also if you see how he treats your bestfriend while they are dating, you're not to good of a friend. You should tell you BFF what he's doing. Remeber "Chicks before *****"? Keep in mind if you see how he acts with a girlfriend what makes you think he'd act any different if he started dating you?
2007-02-10 12:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tough situation, that's for sure. If he likes you, as you say he does, then why doesn't he just break up with his girlfriend? What is it about her that keeps his interest? I hate to tell you but if he's still with her even though you flirt with him so that he sort of KNOWS you like him, but if he's still with her, there's totally a reason. I would talk to him. Don't let life pass you by, and what shame is there in being honest? Maybe he's not pursuing things with you because he's friends with your brother? I would just ask him flat-out. Seriously... life is too short to play guessing games. People appreciate directness and honesty... it cuts thru all the BS and saves everyone emotionally. Good luck to you! Let me know how it works out!
2007-02-10 12:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by Cherstin and Adam F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... Your priorities are obviously screwed!
If she really was one of your best friends... You wouldn't even be entertaining the thought.
I really don't understand people... Even if you are in love with him, even if he is the perfect person for you, even if he does like you too, out of respect for your friend. Leave him alone!
Don't you have any self respect, respect for your friend or self control for that matter? Masturbate for Christs sake and leave them be!
I think your parents let you get your own way far too many times in life... It has obviously done some obvious damage to your character.
Sheesh... You shouldn't have to be told this you know!
But fortunately... life has a way of teaching us right from wrong.
I hope that when you grow up... Karma Doesn't come back to bite you in your as*s in the form of your husbands cute, perky, little secretary who likes him and wants him and he likes her and wants her too... See where I am going with this one?
Actually... I hope it does happen to you, but that's beside the point.
2007-02-10 12:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you really have to evaluate what is important to you. Your lustful desires or friendships. I think if you seek healthy relationships and be a good friend yourself, when you finally get into a relationship and start to have problems you will have either friends that will help you, or people that will be there waiting there ready to pounce when the time is right, and that will be when you are having problems...................decide now what you would like you girlfriend to do to you if you were in her shoes. Aslo if he does it to your best friend he will be looking for your next best friend. That's no way to live Grow up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-10 12:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by betrue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well does he know how you feel just wait until they brake up or tell ur friend how u fell, what would u rather have a boyfriend or a bff if i was u i would give up on him and kepp ur bff
2007-02-10 12:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line, he has a girlfriend and she's your best friend. Don't do anything with this guy. You only asking for problems. In addition, even if they do break up, there's no guarantee that you'll be with him. What if you do end up with him, and he does the same thing to you? Your best friend could react either way, but let's face it: no woman is okay with her friend dating her ex. Proceed with caution. Many blessings.
2007-02-10 12:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah she will be mad...Just wait until they break up and then 2 or 3 months later go out with him....Thats what I did
2007-02-10 12:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by Christy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she will be mad, stop flirting with him, how would you feel if the situation was reversed? He sounds immature and shouldnt be in a relationship at all right now.
2007-02-10 12:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by annonymus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend did that to me with someone I really liked. To this day I hate her for that.This happened 30 years ago.Don't do it he isn't worth it no boy is because right now everything he does is strickly for a selfish reason.
2007-02-10 12:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would never go out with my friends ex's. And just tell her the truth. Because it may just turn out she dont like her boyfriend very much. I would just tell her. A true friend doesn't lie to one another.
2007-02-10 12:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋